My dad just died a week ago 12-12-12 he suffered colon cancer that has been metastasized for almost 4years. But he didn't die in a natural way,he died coz he committed suicide-gun shot wound in the temporal area.. He did it coz he couldn't bare the pain anymore. Please help us pray that God will forgive him and he will find light to heaven coz after all he was a good man, very selfless and a loving and sweet father to us. Yesterday was the burial and now I can't believe that he is gone. And the saddest part was I wasn't able to fly back home when it all happened. Christmas is coming and I don't know how we celebrate it.

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Dec 22, 2012
by: Anonymous

I kind tell you between our last breath is between God and that person. I wish I could wrap my arms around you and let you rest there to deal with your pain. Rest assured that God and your dad are not at odds over what he did. Blessings and peace be with you and your family.

Dec 22, 2012
by: Doreen U.K.

I am so terribly sorry for your loss of your Dad to colon cancer. I am sorry for your loss of your Dad to his inability to hang on to life till he died naturally. This is a very difficult grief to bear. My husband died a slow death to lung cancer caused by working with asbestos. His cancer was incurable, inoperable and aggressive. There were many times it was so very difficult to watch him suffer. I was beside myself with grief over his suffering. Screaming down the phone for a doctor to come and give my husband an injection for the pain. Because of lack of funding he was denied the syringe driver which held the pain medication. The emergency doctor told me this is ridiculous that a man should be denied pain management because of funding. He sent an urgent and angry email to our General Practitioner and he authorised the medication to be given. But the local nurse withheld this till she decided it should be given. It took a nurse 3 hours to finish her clinic and then come out to administer this drug. Within hours of the syringe driver going in. My husband died. I will never get over how he suffered. My grief is unbearable for what and how he suffered. He wanted to die before he did because he suffered for 3yrs.39days before he died. This is difficult to bear. How your father suffered can make me feel close to tears that it took such drastic action on his side to take his own life. This is so wrong. Assisted suicide is seen as a homicide (crime), To leave someone in pain should be a crime. I am so sorry for your grief over this and the sorrow that will feel like forever. I hope that you will be well supported and Heal well from this tragedy.

Dec 22, 2012
so sorry for your lost
by: yolanda

God is a forgiving God, he loves your father and he knew your father was in so much pain, God was hurting too...Remember your father in a beautiful way as a good man and a good father, celebrate his passing, remember your father he's with you always he hasn't left you, you just can't see him... Talk to him..

I lost my daughter 3 months ago it's very hard, she was a beautiful soul, I was so luck and honor to have such a treasure, but I know now she's in a beautiful place and that she's with me always... God Bless you, it's hard but have faith and know that God is with you, and he forgave your father way before all this happen!

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