20 years together and the an dumped
I was with girlfriend for 22 years in total but I don't count the last 2 after finding out after the break up she was on dating and meeting men.
I had to work away to pay the mortgage I stayed with family to allow me to send all my money home which meant i could not go home regular I managed to do all the holidays even managed to pay for her to visit me.
Then on one occasion I phone her to ask when we could get together and was told that she had nothing to come over to and there was no reason for me to go home. And then she put the phone down I tried to call her family but no one would talk then 6 months later I find out via the Internet that my foster daughter of 15 years had died she nor her family had told me. Managed to contact her and asked why wasn't I told her reply was couldn't handle me and new boyfriend at the funeral.
Since then I have found out the new boyfriend was living in my house when we were supposed to be together and that he is 12 years her junior I can understand her leaving me for a younger man but don't understand the lies she was my best friend for twenty years and up until this I don't think we ever told each other lies.
why when I know I am better off out of it does it still hurt she is on my mind the minute I wake up and there again before I sleep