2day old brother died :(

by kaiey
(england)

i am twelve years of age and today Saturday 18th February 2012 my dear brother of only two days born on 15th February 2012 passed away due to a bleed on his brain we seem to believe he may of had septicemia (poisoning of the blood) which made it harder for him to survive i have not stopped crying and have had a lot of support the part that makes me sad the most is that my mum has been sedated due to pain through her pregnancy
meaning she still doesn't no that the baby was born (by siserian) let alone died and i am going to have to break it to her because my family feel i am the right person as i am her only child and i am the only one that can keep a brave face hopefully while telling her

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Feb 19, 2012
2day old brother died
by: sendy

Dear young girl
I understand very well what it is to loose brother, and I believe you are a brave young girl taking upon herself a great burden and responsability. First seek out any family member you trust and get them to help you or if you have a teacher or school couinselor you can talk to. It is important that you take care of yourself, so that you can be of help to your mother. I my self lost a brother which I never saw, because he died 1 hr after his birth. Even though I was a little girl like you I miss him, and frequently think of him. Just have confidence in our Creator and know that many come to this world for a long time and others just for 1hr or two days like your brother.It has helped me all this yrs to think that he is an angel that watch for me. I also think as an adult if he had survived his life would have been difficult and dependent of others to care for him.Being that your brother had such infection he would have probably been very sick all his life. Im sure our Creator is holding him is his arms safely. I pray you do well and that you will have the strength to be your Mom's best companion and support. Seek help, it is good you joined this web-page, that says a lot about you.
regards, Sendy

Feb 19, 2012
Sweetheart
by: Anonymous

Such a big responsibilty for you... words can't fix this but know someone from the other side of the world is giving you the biggest hug and keeping you in my prayers.

Love Nanny Char
Brisbane Australia xxx

Feb 18, 2012
2 day old brother died
by: Martha

My deepest sympathy for this terrible lost. You are a brave child. However one of your adult relative should give that sad news to your mother. This is much to bear for you. You can be present at the moment but, with all due respect, an adult should communicate the terrible news to your mom. God bless your family and you.

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