37 years of an almost perfect marriage
(Mount Barker SA Australia)
My husband of 37 years left me 7 years ago for a much younger woman in the Philippines. He just left with just a note which sounded like he was going to harm himself because he was feeling guilty about the cyber affairs. I contacted the police and they stopped their investigation when they found out that he had left the country. I then contacted the consular assitance department. After 5 months I found him and started talking to him via the pc.I have been trying to pay off a fairly large credit card debt we incurred when we were running a business. I had to negotiate a full time position with the company I was working for.I have had counselling and been on a couple of different anti-depressants. I have finally got off the anti-depressants as of last week . My arthritis became worse so I asked for my long service leave. The following day my landlord told me he was going to demolish the house I was renting so my weekly rent in any new place was going to be more than I was paying.
After all that and him badly hurting our adult Aboriginal boys whom we adopted,I still find I love him hurt like hell almost everyday and wish with all my heart that he was back here.