45 is to young daddy come back you left me and nikki don't you think i have lost enough people i did not need to lose you to

by Alexis Hafer
(portland,Oregon)

Hi my daddy was 45 when he died.He was the only person that could make me laugh when i was down.I miss my best friend he was not supposed to leave me I'm 14 and my little sister is 11.My daddy died March 5,2012 and me and my little sister came home from school and I was the first one to find, i started to get worried when he didn't answer me . I wish my friends understood the feeling of losing a loved one. My daddy died 2 weeks after he was released from the hospital he had a bypass surgery on his heart.I regret not spending enough time with him before he passed away.

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Aug 18, 2012
45 is too yound daddy. come back you lef me and nikki don't you think I haved lost enough people I did not need to lose you too.
by: Doreen U.K.

Alexis I am so sorry for you and your sister's loss of your daddy. You are so young at 14 and your sister of 11yrs. to lose such a significant person from your life. Do you have a Mom? Who is taking care of you and your siser? Alexis keep a grief journal and write in this every day letters to your daddy and tell him how you feel and what pain his leaving you and your sister has meant. Write often. You need to express how you feel. Also do this to a grief counsellor. You and your sister are far too young to handle this grief all on your own. See if your school has a counsellor and talk to them about how you are feeling about your friends not understanding. Perhaps a school counsellor can introduce some method of speaking in class to help all children understand LOSS OF A PARENT and what it does to your life and how your friends could support you now at this critical time. You will cry a lot of the time. You may even be very angry your dad left you. You may even be angry at someone else. This is GRIEF. It has to do its work before healing takes place in your heart. My 3 children are older. They are Adults now and they lost their father 3 months ago. Death is a very painfull experience of LIFE. DEATH IS ALSO CRUEL.

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