by heartbroken

My Dad passed away on 2nd feb ,
He had a sudden a sudden heart attack . I was in the office miles away from my place and i got a call from my mother , she was crying on the phone . It took me 12 hours to reach home . Earlier night i talked to him on the phone and was completely fine . He walked everyday and always had a low cholesterol diet . I dont know what took my father away from me but it hurts and my heart cries every second of my life till now .
I love my father and hate god for taking him away from me . Never realized earlier that i loved him so much . Dad please come back to me and i'll never let you go anywhere . I love you and i miss you badly :( :( : ( :( :(

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Apr 13, 2012
Suddenly & Unexpectedly
by: Helen

O my heart goes out to you and I would love to wrap my arms around you and cry with You. My dad died on 30th January, 2011 suddenly and unexpectedly of a heart attack. it is such a shock for you, and in this moment in time I think it's important to express your heart and grieving anyway you like.
Being angry is normal process of trying to fathom out your loss. Yeh I went through a hate period, don't feel bad about it, I'm sure God will understand, as the intensity of your pain is overwhelming and needs to be expressed, better God to talk to and express your feelings to, than to be lashing out at your family and friends and the rest of the world.
Our dads are important to us and it's to extremely hard to understand why they have to leave us, especially when they leave us soooo suddenly and unexpectedly
Our moods change minute to minute and can become so upset and sad for a period of time, give yourself sometime and down the track remember, we can make a choice to
live life to the fullest and remember all the happy times we had
together with our dad's.
I can smile now when I think of dad, without crying, and even have a chuckle to myself as he always wanted me to be happy.
Make your dad proud, write him a good bye letter expressing your feelings and tell him how you feel about him leaving you so suddenly.
May your dad's love follow you through each day and night as you travel down this sad and painful road of grief. xxx

Apr 13, 2012
Sorry for your Loss
by: Anonymous

He cannot come back as much as you want it. When God calls us, it is our time to go. Do not be angry at God. He understands you pain more than you realize. I lost my husband of 25 plus years, 5 months and 12 days ago. There is not a day goes by that I do not wish he were here with me. I cannot blame God for his being gone.
Come here as often as you need to. Vent, cry, laugh, share stories about his life but do not blame God.
One breath, one step, one day at a time. I am truly sorry for your loss. May God hold you gently in the palm of His hand.

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