a new year.................

by Jen
(northern ireland)

Hi all,

Yes a new year and who knows how far it will take us.

All i know is that yes i am further down this unwanted journey and yes i am a strong lady who has found i can keep a house, a nursing career, three dogs a horse and a cat and of course our gorgeous 14 and 16 year old girls.

The three of us have come so far as a wee team, and Richard would be so damn proud of 'his three girls'

I want you all to know that altho you cannot even think of this far down your journey things settle and we begin to see the light peeking thro that door we left ajar and we can begin to enjoy, yes enjoy what our wonderful world has to offer us.

Don't give up, please.

Jen x

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Jan 03, 2011
a new year
by: jules

Jen - how far you have come - I am so proud of you -

one step, one breath -
take care

Jan 03, 2011
Thats Great news :)!


Yes you have come so far and I am so proud of you. I have seen you come so very far in your journey. Richard is proud as he watches over you and your girls. I raise my coffee mug to you!
Thank you so much for helping me this long year and letting others know that there is light at the end of the tunnel. We just need to reach for it. :)

Jan 03, 2011
by: Mike

Thank you, Jen, for all of your kind words of encouragement. It does help.

Jan 03, 2011
What a beautiful tribute
by: Terri

Thanks for the inspirational perspective you have given me. Your Richard would be proud of you and both of your girls! There is a way out of this darkness and your story shows me that. Again, Thanks for sharing.

Jan 02, 2011
Thank you..
by: Danielle

Thank you for some encouraging words. I hope 2011 brings you family peace, health and enjoyment.

Jan 02, 2011
by: Donna

Jen, thank you for all of your words of encouragement. I am praying that this year will be better than the last. Of course it will be, nothing else could ever be as bad as losing my soulmate. I know Bryan is and always will be watching over me and our girls, oh and grand kids. I hope that I can find the strength to keep my word to Bryan. Not mourning him for the rest of my life is going to be so hard to do, but I promised him that I wouldn't. But how long is forever? I just hope and pray that the pain lessens and becomes bearable and I can try to enjoy life a little and become a (semi) whole person again. Again I go one day one step one breath Please stay strong

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