A year alone after 12 year relationship ends
I have had 2 major illneses, cancer, open heart surgery.
I thought she was wonderful standing by me or so I thought.
The illnesses took its toll mentally and physically.
On both of us, it put a strain on our relationship.
I started having major doubts when after open heart surgery, I had a bad turn and was attended to by the crash team i learnt later. I was sick when eating my meal on the evening whilst a nurse gave me medication. I text my partner i had been sick. She replied are you ok.
Followed quickly by another get your self sorted before you come home, as I cant handle that. I had had open heart surgery spent 2 nights intensive care, doped up to the eyeballs but i was shocked.
Cut the story short, I discovered texts from another man.
Which she totally denied. I asked if all was well with us no it is not and how dare I accuse her of an affair. I did not i nearly asked was there anyone else. I then uncover £5000.00 debt she had ran up on my credit card without my knowledge. Then to discover water rates debts of £1000:00 she had ran up solely in my name.
I loved her and offered to help her clear the debts. The credit card company wanted to do her for fraud. I said no what a fool.
She led me a merry dance first wanting to start again as girlfriend and boyfriend. I'm 58 we had been together 12 years.
I met her several times each time she would burst into tears.
I asked I wanted to here from her, is the relationship over. It was not as simple as that she said. A year on i have not had closure. She moved on started online dating. A relationship she started failed.
I have uncovered more lies and deciept this past year.
It left me devastated, she has lied bad mouthed me.
My conscience is clear i did no wrong but love her.