This business of living solo in this world is causing me endless frustration. Let's just forget I am lonely. I am having trouble doing even routine household maintenance that was a snap for the two of us together. I have been trying for three weekends to install a towel bar-simple job, right? Drill four holes, insert the anchors that came in the box, put up the bracket, tighten the screws, snap on bar viola! Three weekends later I have four holes, five anchors dropped behind the drywall, and one screw stuck in the anchor which has now pulled out of the wall. I even bought myself a drill for this job. If I just had someone to hold the screw straight while I got it started... The list is endless-I can't reach the light bulbs in teh ceiling fans so several are burnt out. Ditto the lights in the bathroom. I can't hold the stove up off the floor while I adjust the footing so it will sit evenly. I can't turn on the hose in front of the house and handle the other end so it doesn't go shooting all over my wooden patio chairs and picture window in my front courtyard. I can't hose off the back screened in porch and sweep the excess water out the door at the same time, thus preventing it from pooling on the tile and causing a slippery pathway to the back door! This sounds funny when I read it but it is not funny. As I write this I am soaked through by the aforementioned attempt to hose off the front courtyard. I've thought about getting a handyman for some of these jobs but handymen don't hoseoff patios etc. I have a honey-do list. I'm just missing the honey. I can't believe I am this incompetent!