Abbigail Bee Craig
Abbi enjoying a slurpee!
My little girl, Abbigail, died on July 12/13, 2012 from SIDS/SUDC. She was a perfectly healthy toddler, a few days short of being 1 year and 7 months old. On July 12, my wife and I found her face down in her crib, when we pulled her out instantly we knew she was dead, but we gave CPR until the ambulance showed up, where they then took over and took her to the hospital where the doctor declared her dead.
Really, she died on the 12th. As I said before, when we pulled her out of her crib, I knew she was dead right there and then. So that kinda makes me mad, always seeing July 13th as the official doctor declared certified death date, rather than the ACTUAL death date on the 12.
Autopsy, toxicology and genetic testing have all come up negitive for any cause, leaving it at Unknown.
I am really, really, sad. We have a 5 year old as well. It crushes me that she lost her sister and will likely feel the way I do about losing my child for the rest of her life.
The saddest parts for me is that Abbi won't get to grow up and live her life, and her sister will forever be affected by this. Not fair for a 5 year old to have to deal with that.
I miss my Abbi so much and YEARN to hold her and love her and look at her and comfort her. Love you baby!!!!