My husband of 28 yrs has told me he is leaving me. I had found out he was having an affair at Christmas, but I wanted to work on our marriage and I thought everything was going good. How can a man give up his, home, kids and destroy a family without any kind of word of explanation?
He turns everything around and blames me for everything and that I am all at fault. He did this right before my 50th birthday, just after I had given him a celebration for his birthday. How can anyone be so cruel? I have been off work due to stress related issues, and now he hits me with this news.
He expresses no remorse and no explanation and tells me I don't deserve one. I was on the road to recovery and would have soon been returning to work, but this has set me so far back, farther back than when I went off work. I do not know if I can go on, this devastation has ruined me completely. I only see a black hole for the future. Pretty pitiful.