Thanks for this Website so that i know we are not alone (loss my dad around 70 days ago). Also, I can imagine how painful for my mum by reading other's blog of losing a spouse. It's really really difficult for her to lose her soulmate. I can't compare my feeling of losing a dad as what she lost in her lifetime.
Thanks to god. Finally, it seems we are taking good steps this week. She moved in a new apartment last week which she finds that is comfortable. She starts to have lunch with her sis and my grandmum. She starts to mention to me that she will meet up with her friends for gathering soon. Though, i know, she will still feel lonely at night, and she still miss my dad everyday. But at least, in good progress
I am taking her to a short vacation tmr.... but i am not sure if i am thinking too positive. Just 70days after our beloved left us. Can she really be that strong? Especially, there is no sign before dad's gone~
I need advice from others on how to manage my mum's emotion. Only if she can go through the grieving process, I can go through it.