I am curious, a friend of mine called this morning & said she met someone who is a medium, my friend was very good friends with my son. she said this guy described my son to her & said his spirit came to him side ways which meant my son was ashamed of what he done & that I needed to sit at the dark wood table with a white candle & talk to my son so he can move on to the next level to find peace. He said my son can feel my pain. I have never really believed in this stuff & was wondering what others think. I have a dark wood table outside where my & I use to sit & talk. But why a white candle? He also said I should do this at 11am &11pm. What is your thoughts on this?