After Life

by Anybody

I am curious, a friend of mine called this morning & said she met someone who is a medium, my friend was very good friends with my son. she said this guy described my son to her & said his spirit came to him side ways which meant my son was ashamed of what he done & that I needed to sit at the dark wood table with a white candle & talk to my son so he can move on to the next level to find peace. He said my son can feel my pain. I have never really believed in this stuff & was wondering what others think. I have a dark wood table outside where my & I use to sit & talk. But why a white candle? He also said I should do this at 11am &11pm. What is your thoughts on this?

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Jun 02, 2011
The God of heaven is not in this
by: Anonymous

I sorrow with you in your loss and longing to speak with your son. My search for truth about death took me to the Bible. There is much scripture about death and here is a start. God bless you as you search for truth.

"For we are not wrestling with flesh and blood [contending only with physical opponents], but against the despotisms, against the powers, against [the master spirits who are] the world rulers of this present darkness, against the spirit forces of wickedness in the heavenly (supernatural) sphere." Eph. 6:12

"...the dead know nothing..." Eccl. 9:5

"He [in death] enters into peace..." Isa. 57:2

May 31, 2011
After Life
by: Anonymous

Your blessed to get that message -- wood table, white candle or not just send that loving peace and light to his soul, and continue to talk to him in your mind or out loud.... Every soul needs a loving prayer wherever we are. The table and candle helps put a sacredness or ceremony to your talks....Jules said it beautifully -- thank you Jules.

It brought peace to me when my son sent a message through a medium.... thank your brave friend!

May 30, 2011
after life
by: jules

Be at the table with a white candle at those times, if you can - the candle may be to light the way, and for you to concentrate on - watch the flickering light, clear your mind, talk to you son in your head as if he was there with you - don't lose faith in it if he isn't there at first - the spirit world has no sense of time.
This doesn't mean you should be there absolutely every day at these times, just when it is easy for you to be. Make sure you have a glass of water with you - and if you smoke, please do not do so at this time or place (sorry, I was just told this by a spirit - I am a chanel, so opened myself up to write to you and this is what I am getting through)- I am sending you blue light, which will protect you, just ask in your mind for blue light when you need comfort)
Please take this in the spirit in which it is intended - as a comfort and help to you -
one breath - one step - take care

May 30, 2011
after life
by: Anonymous

I believe that I would be at the wood table at both times just in case. I personally believe in spirits but I also believe that you have to be very cautious when it comes to mediums, unfortunately they are not all on the up and up. I wish you the best no matter what your decision is.

May 30, 2011
After Life
by: JG

I'd say just do it. Who knows how God works? It may help you knowing you did what your son asked one last time.

I would not rule it out. Some mediums are surprise me with what they know . The ones like John Edwards is amazing.

May 30, 2011
Happy Memorial Day
by: Anonymous

Happy Memorial Day to my wonder husband and to the following:
My grandmother Pearl, My grandpa Harry, My beloved Uncle Don and Aunt Edna, My Uncle and Cousin Joe (father and son), My grandma Rose, My grandpa Emil, My grandpa Richard, My uncles Dick and Sonny, my good friends Chris and Julian (who both died in their early 20's, My beloved brother Tom (who was only 33 when he passed leaving behind a 4 year old son), My best friend's sister Kaarina (only 17, my aunt Joy, My friend Ed's son (Ed Jr., killed in Iraq 5 years ago), friends Fred and George, My beloved father.
I've suffered loss as you can see but nothing prepared me for the death of my husband. It's been 6 months and my entire world has come crashing down around me. I miss him so badly but am happy to keep his wonderful memory alive.


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