I lost my loving husband on Dec 8,2010. My children and I have gone through so many 1st. The first Christmas, New Years, my birthday, our anniversary, valentines day, each of my children's birthday's,Easter, mother's day and now we are coming upon Father's Day. Everyone of those firsts have been difficult for my family. I know for my children Father's Day will be so very hard. My husband Gene was such a wonderful dad and husband. It is so difficult coping with my own grief, but to see the sadness in their eyes and hear it in their voices makes this journey even harder, because my heart goes out to them as they grieve the loss of their dad. Our family has a strong faith in God and know that Gene is in peace and in the loving hands of our Lord. But for all of us these firsts are so hard. I ask that God watch over my children and help them to get through Father's Day and every day without their Dad. I am hoping that all of you on this site find peace as you too go through the Firsts, every day is hard, but the firsts just seem to be unbearable.