Beautiful Angels

Our beautiful twins were taken too early. Premature, born at 26 and a half weeks. They were long awaited and planned for. They were a result of egg donation from my niece.

We had been trying for a baby for years but nothing worked, then my niece offered to donate her eggs and we were over the moon. The pregnancy was a success, until i went into labour at 25 weeks 1 day, they managed to hold off the pregnancy for 8 days but then the boys had to be delivered.

They were so tiny, their little bodies in incubators all wired up. After 2 days we lost our first precious boy, then 5 days later our second angel was taken from us.

My niece sat with them day and night, not leaving their side. It was a relief to know that she was there, she couldn't bare to leave.

It is a few months on now and the wounds are still sore. My niece is in a terrible state, she is poorly, depressed and suicidal. I cannot bare to lose another. She was so devoted and in love with the boys. I don't know how to save her. I know it's not my fault but I relied on her to be there for the boys as I could not cope. Please god help her.

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Dec 30, 2012
Beautiful Angels
by: Doreen U.K.

I am sorry for your loss of premature twin boys. I am concerned for your niece. You can't save her. She is very vulnerable and needs outside support. URGENTLY find a counsellor or talk to the doctor and get her an emergency appointment for support especially if she is suicidal. You have to act promptly. She can't cope and needs your support and the support of the medical profession. This is a terrible tragedy. Your niece will Recover with HELP from the doctor and a counsellor. See that she keeps all her appointments and doesn't lapse if she feels better. Keep an eye on her all the time. Let her know that if she died it would break your heart and you would not be able to cope with the loss. Let her know she is LOVED. Let her know what a valuable contribution she makes to your life by being part of it. She will remember this when she feels low.
I hope that you are able to get the help and support you need and that life will improve for all of you.

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