Best Friend I Could Ever Wish For

by susie
(uk)

I met my dear friend Judy on line years ago.
She had health problems but never complained
Judy was so special to me and my other friends but i loved her so much.
Judy so much looked forward to going away on holiday with her husband,which she did but so sadly she caught an infection and shortly came home and lost her life.
It was always a pleasure to turn on my computer knowing she was here each day to chat and have so much fun with.
She often made mistakes in her cooking due to her illness and once she made chicken soup and after she ate it she found the chicken was still in her fridge hahaha . another time she cooked some pastries and had to take them out of the oven before they were cooked as she had lost her wedding band in the time it took her to make the pastries, hahaha i will always remember the times she had cooking mishaps but she also did cook well when things went well with her health.
Every day she was on line she sang songs Somewhere over the rainbow by Judy Garland followed by many songs from the film.
The sad lass of Judy is cutting me and my other friends up so much and we are finding it hard to cope at this moment as it was only 17 days ago she passed away
We all try to carry on but there is nothing harder to try to do that knowing our WONDERFUL SPECIAL FRIEND WILL NEVER BE WITH US AGAIN.
I cry myself to sleep each night but knowing she wouldnt want me to be upset i just cant help it she was such a very important part of my life I MISS HER EVERY MINUTE OF EVERY HOUR OF EVERY WEEK YOU MY WONDERFUL FRIEND JUDY MANY THANKS FOR OUR WONDERFUL FRIENDSHIP GOODNIGHT GODBLESS

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Aug 22, 2014
Best Friend I could ever wish For
by: Doreen UK

Susie I am so sorry for your loss of your special friend Judy to a sudden death.
It is rare to have such a friendship as yours, with such a good bonding. If you were a group you will be able to support each other through your loss of Judy. If you find yourself struggling with your grief you can always try CRUSE bereavement services for support. How is Judy's husband doing? It is so hard to lose close loved one's. Grief is very painful. You just long for it to pass but the healing is all too slow. We go through life and gather friends and if we are lucky we get to keep our friends, but all too often we lose them faster than we would an enemy. The best way forward is by taking one day at a time. I found this good advice on this site and helped me greatly when I lost my husband to cancer 2yrs. ago. Grief doesn't last forever. it has its process of healing. You will feel so lonely for days after. You will be able to keep a journal of your friendship and gather your thoughts for your journal which will bring you such comfort in the days and months ahead.

Aug 21, 2014
be a friend
by: Anonymous

So sorry for your loss
.
all I can say is try to be a friend to someone. I know that is not what you want to hear, but there are many lonely people in the world that need a friend and you have learned the qualities to be one. Remember the good times and I wish you well.
Mary

Aug 21, 2014
Best friend I could ever wish for
by: Jane

Dear Susie, first of all, I am so sorry for loosing your best friend Judy. Your words reminds me so much of my best friend Anita. We know each other since 20 years. I was the Babysitter of her two pretty daughters. They are now 14 and 17 years old. They all say, "Jane, you belong to the Family." I am feeling this way too. I must laugh when I have read your funny stories from Judy. Anita and I have such Kind of stories too. She has cancer. She will come today in a hospice. Before she was in the hospital. I am going to loose her. It is so hard for me, to see how much she is suffering. When I am in the Hospital and see, how much she has changed every day, it es breaking my heard. Shortly I remember than we were out for a walk and we were talking and laughing together. She loves it when I talled her storries about my mom. She died 14 months ago. Anita says: " I hope, when I am death my daughters will talk about me like you talk about your Mom. I still miss my Mom a lot too. Anita enjoys it, when her daughters to pet her face. She says, "that feels so good." It is so hard for me, that I am going to loose my best friend soon. But she said often to me, "§Jane I don´t want to suffer." Oh Judy, it is hard to loose the best friend. I get tears in my eyes, while I am writing to you. I don´t know any words which can comfort or help you. Just let her live in your memories every day. Take one day after the other. Tell me more about your best friend. I wish I could share the stories with you. Anita and I wanted to do so many things together and now she is going to leave me. Maybe than she can see my dear loving Mom. Dear Susie, I wish you the power and gods comfort you need now. Judy is now in your heart and has got there a very special place. Not with her Body, but different. She likes it when you write us all about her and smiles. You will never forget her. Thank you for sharing your words about your best friends Judy. Just feel your self be hugged from me from Germany and excuses my mistakes. I will think of you and pray for you. Jane

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