Both dads gone in the same day
1/10/13 My husband and best friend received a call around 3 pm from his mother that his step father had passes while she was at work. He was like a father to my husband and his two brothers, and also he left behind a son of his own. We rushed to my husbands youngest brothers house to be among family and start the grieving process. His step father was a juvenile diabetic and had been sick for years, but the last two days of his life were especially hard on him. He was weak and vomiting, and refused to go to the hospital. He was being taken care of by my husbands real father for the last two days as everyone else who lived in the home was working, my husbands brother, his fiancé, and his mother. A few hours before we left his brothers house and all the other family began to leave to his real father had said he was exhausted from taking care of his friend, and my husbands step father, the last two days. He had been up til 3 am the night before and wanted to take a nap, so he told me and my brother in laws wife he was "going to make a sandwhich or two, and get some rest." when my husband and I got home about 30 minutes away from his brothers house we had begun to relax and take in the days events. Around midnight we received a call that his real father had been found in bed passed away as well, that he was said to have been gone for a hour or two. Less than twelve hours apart abd in the same home my husband lost both fathers and my father in laws. I'm feeling helpless abd lost. We are to take care of arrangements of his father as his mother is taking care of his step fathers. We have little to no money and as far as we know his father had no life insurance. He was sick as well with cancer in the throat and left lung. He was his normal self all day and we have not recieved any information from the medical examiner about what caused his death yet. My husband is in a lot of distress and I dont know what to do. I wish things were not this way but in the end we will all have to find solace in the fact their souls were set free and they have each other to take a journey we all usually have to take alone
RIP to my father in laws thank you for welcoming me to your family with open hearts and arms you will both be dearly missed and never forgotten we will keep you in our hearts forever.