Broken heart

by Grieving male
(Naperville IL)

After being married 15 years and together for 3 children later my wife is leaving me and there's nothing I can do about it. I am so devastated and crushed I don't know how to go on; it's the most painful thing I have ever felt and all I want is to be hugged, loved and cared for.

Truly grieving male

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Dec 08, 2012
Is it better yet ?
by: spiral

I see these comments from 2 years ago. It's happening to me now. It's been 1 year. and it's not better. i'm still alone. He is still with the woman he left me for. They bought a house with the money her and I saved together. And I am alone. When does the pain stop ?

Sep 13, 2010
We must go on.
by: Anonymous

15 years and 1 child, my husband and I split up 3 months ago. It was mutual. I feel lonely, unattractive, somehow unlovable, but hearing from you and that there are others like me out there, gives me hope. I don't know how or why, but I feel a little more patient now.

May 10, 2010
by: Anonymous

I am so sorry for your loss. I don't know why God created such hurt in our lives. Grief is one of the hardest things to deal with. I know my words won't mean much at this point but I do know in "time" you will feel better. Sending you A MILLION HUGS.

Apr 22, 2010
I'm sorry
by: Anonymous

I am a woman like your wife. I have been married for 20 years and do not love my husband any more. I question myself every day. I mourn the loss of my family unit. It's something I never could have fixed with him. He wasn't bad, mean, abusive. I just didn't love him any more. I don't know why I'm writing this to you- I'm just sorry this has happened.

Mar 16, 2010
Hurting, lonely
by: greiving male

I feel so alone and worthless and like nobody loves me or I'm a bad person and I feel like I will always be alone, thank you grieving male

Mar 15, 2010
You will heal...
by: Anonymous

It is truly devastating. My husband left me after 13 years and 2 children. I do understand your pain. It does take time to heal. Wish there were some easy answers, but there isn't. Sending you prayers. Hoping it is a comfort to you to know that you will heal.

Mar 08, 2010
by: Anonymous

I cannot hug or reach out to you. Know that I am praying for you and the awful pain that you are suffering. People do care even from 100's of miles away....

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