Cannot believe my little brother is gone.

by Dee
(South Dakota, USA)


Lost my little bother Timothy 24, Sept 12. 2012. I have blocked out so much from that day. He died in a instant horrible accident. I still cannot believe what happened to him. I miss him everyday. He died alone, laying a on cold dark interstate, while he sat in his semi and didn't even call the police that he had just struck my brother who had crashed his car and was trying to get help. He driver let him lay there on the side of the road and did not try to help Tim. My poor parents. Our family has been ripped apart from our loss. What kind of person can leave a kid on the road and not try to do something, call the police, get out of your vehicle! I Miss our Timmy every second.

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Feb 10, 2014
Cannot believe my little brother is gone.
by: Doreen UK

I am sorry for your loss of your brother Timothy. The driver acted with carelessness and lack of Integrity. I daresay he was scared of being caught and was more focused on his own feelings and fear of prison. Many people don't do the right thing out of fear.
The circumstances of our loved one's death affect us so much. How they died. How much the suffered. Did they know what happened and did they feel alone? This greatly affects one's grief. To lose a child and a sibling is one of the worst experiences ever. To not have your brother in your life anymore will be such a huge painful loss. For your parents to have lost a child will leave them in so much emotional pain for a long time. I hope you all have good supportive family and friends to help you all to cope with the loss. When my husband died 21 months ago I got through it better with good support. There are also grief support groups and also grief counsellors if you or your family are struggling with your grief. It does help, but there are no quick solutions to recovering from grief. It is very much taking ONE DAY AT A TIME. I am sorry for the loss of your brother/son.

Feb 09, 2014
little brother is gone
by: Anonymous

It is truly a difficult life at times and now your heart is broken because you are missing your dear brother. Please try to go for grief counseling. you were a good sister and now you are being a good daughter to help your parents in their sorrow. A professional may be able to help you see the accident and the person who caused this in a different way; one that can release you from your anger and give you some peace in the coming days. Turn to God and please know that we on this site care about you and will pray for you. I know the sorrow of loosing a loved one; my dear husband died 14 months ago from SCA and I live with grief every minute but I am leaning on God to help me on this most difficult journey. God Bless You.

Feb 09, 2014
little brother is gone
by: Anonymous--MI

It is truly a difficult life at times and now your heart is broken because you are missing your dear brother. Please try to go for grief counseling. you were a good sister and now you are being a good daughter to help your parents in their sorrow. A professional may be able to help you see the accident and the person who caused this in a different way; one that can release you from your anger and give you some peace in the coming days. Turn to God and please know that we on this site care about you and will pray for you. I know the sorrow of loosing a loved one; my dear husband died 14 months ago from SCA and I live with grief every minute but I am leaning on God to help me on this most difficult journey. God Bless You.

Feb 09, 2014
Timothy
by: Anonymous

Yes the life of a young person is so tragic. Any death is of course, but knowing you and your brother still had so many things to share. Its tragic that he didn't get the help he needed. Most people would not be able to stand by and do nothing. I'm sorry you have to accept that part. I lost my 30 year old son this past year, and please try to help your parents as much as you can. Losing a child is something you never get over. But I'm so sorry for my remaining children, that there brother is gone. As I'm sure it was for your family, you take out that one person and everything changes. I miss the love and laughter we had when he was still here. But we will just have to learn to adjust. But its not easy.

Feb 09, 2014
The Lord is my strength
by: Anonymous

I am sorry for your loss of your brother, and my condolences to you and your family. I can only imagine how defestating that is for all of your family, but I do know your pain, because my husband died of Lieukimia, actually today is 1 yr. 2 months ago, but different circumstances. I hope your family fines peace & tranquility in all of this, because it does not matter who one loss, a brother, a sister, husband, wife, pet. It is still a great loss for anyone. My prayers go out to you. May the light of the Father, Son, Holy Spirit be with you, and your family.

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