cody james hamm my heart

by traci hamm
(enid,okla )

cody j hamm

cody j hamm

i am a heart broke mom from Enid, Okla. i lost my oldest out of 3 boys my 23 year old last Oct in 2013. it s been around 5 months now and i will never heal from it. it was an uncalled for death due to a high speed chase with the local police dept i m still in a dazed state of mind but things are starting to come to my attention that the 1 mile no neighborhood chase was uncalled for and because of a man in authority made a decision to pursue at 85 miles an hour than spun my sons car out hit the side of the car not just once but 3 times, my son thrown out and the car then flew 100 ft in the air. my child had been recently been in trouble for selling pot. they had been harassing him since and this cop really thought he was in the right ??? i never forget the phone call i got from my sister i was in Lawton Okla 3 hours away telling me that Cody was in a bad wreck and that they needed my permission to take him off life support. i lost my mind my heart and soul nothing was even real from then til now still hard to believe why did god take him from me? he was my baby and did god need him more than me and his 2 younger brothers, i will never be the same and i have so many unanswered questions ..all i can think is each day i am one more closer to my Cody James R.i.p. Cody James Hamm

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Mar 02, 2014
Your son
by: Kate

I'm so sorry you lost your beloved son Cody. I know the shock of unexpected death of a child,my son was 39 when the terrible call came that changed our families lives forever. One brother and three sisters grieve with me. I have made it 15 mo in shock daze pain and sorrow,I don't know how,except grace og God. We can't understand death. I find no answer why our children die for us to feel such horrible pain. That is such a bad story of the chase. Senseless -was it that important officer? Oh my I'm so sorry. We feel so alone but God does have to power to give life again. We can not. Rev21:3,4 do just go one day at a time ,some days you will do better than others. My heart goes out to you and your family.

Mar 01, 2014
cody james hamm my heart
by: Doreen UK

Traci I am sorry for your loss of your beloved son to a senseless accidental death. WE just never know when we are going to lose one of our precious children which is why it is good to cover our children with prayer for God's protection always from all harm around them. Even now I sit here wondering what is round the corner for any one of us. I worry over my children as any mom would do because the pain is so unbearable, when you lose a loved one. To lose a child/adult child is the worst experience of one's life. I lost my husband to cancer 21 months ago and grieving seems to go on forever. I don't know when we will be done with grief, if ever. Every day is such a struggle. The days grow longer when one is suffering pain. All I hope for is for Jesus to come back and end our sorrow and take us to a better place he is preparing for those who love and accept Him. Going through grief with God is somehow a little easier. But much of what we go through we have to endure to grow and heal from whilst we live in this fallen world. May God be with you and comfort you through life and give you His Peace.

Mar 01, 2014
cody james mum x
by: dianne

I am so sorry you don't have Cody in your life but he will always be in your heart I also lost my eldest son he to was my baby coming up 8 months ago it was also sudden and he was 21 not a day as gone by that I don't long for him to be with me and the emptiness I felt back then is same if not worse they will always be our boys and I live in hope that one day I will be able to give him the hug and kiss just to hear his voice again I completely sympathise with you from the changes we have recently had to come to terms with I hope Cody and Paul have met up there and are having the fun they should have been having here now and to codys mum big hugs and my thoughts are with you take he day at a time and remember the good times and laughter we shared with our boys x

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