Crazy Chris

by Jan Franci
(Medellin, Colombia)

I was loved even before I was born, I had a beautiful family, and just today I was watching videos with my mom of when I was a baby and I realized what a lucky girl I was ( and still am ) but life doesn't stops for anyone, and I wish it would. At age 8 my parents divorced and and they took different paths, I was living in south America with mom and dad in the US, he had a R6 (a high velocity bike) and that became his third love first God then came family and then his death, just two weeks ago on a beautiful sunny Sunday I heard the horrible news and died inside But I got to be with my whole family together one more time and I felt blessed but my dad had lots of plans for me and my family this year and destiny ,well, you know deprived him from realizing some dreams, and in April 27 of 2014 ,38 year old biker Christian F. died trying to skip an old man that in a not-crossing road was crossing with his bicycle ( this guy already had 4 more accidents for doing the same thing) and flew over crashing hard against the ground and in a non suffering way lost his life leaving us and his friend with a broken heart . I just wish I could of hugged him and tell him how much I loved him one last time before he left me this way.
All I do now is tell my friend to appreciate both of their parents now, and not wait for a future you don't even know it'll come.
Love you daddy, Jan 15 year old only child, only princess.

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May 13, 2014
Crazy Chris
by: Doreen UK

Jan what a tragic accident that robbed you of a very young father. I am sorry for your loss of a dad at a tender age in your life.
I lost my husband 2yrs. ago to cancer and my 3 Adult children lost their father. It is much worse when you are young and have your whole life to live without a father. Grief is so very painful.
I am so happy your father believed in God. He had a relationship that is the most important in life. Knowing God, is where your deepest comfort will come from. You can also have this HOPE that you will see your father again. This is my HOPE and is what is going to keep me coping with each lonely day without him. I hope you have good family support as you grieve.
May God go with you and your family and comfort you and give you His Peace in the midst of your grief.

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