by Kathy
(Ocala Florida)

My mother and father moved to Ocala fl 25 yrs ago and I moved down 18 yrs ago . I first moved in with my mom and dad for about 2 months until i got my own place, when I told my Mom I wanted to move down to Ocala she immediately said you can move in with us until you find a place we would love to have you ,So I did and i felt safe and loved soon we started to do everything together and did so up until her death which was 4 days ago , I feel sick , sad I dont know which way to turn and my heart is broken I lost my best friend I dont know what to do at this point will the pain ever stop ? I have a daughter who still lives at home and she is also grieving , and my son who came down for the funeral is also grieving I feel like I'm no help to them right now because I can"t help my self and my husband dosen't understand the bond between mother and daughter no one can , any suggestions I am hurting so bad I can't handle it .?

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Apr 22, 2012
by: Roops

No one can understand ur pain. And specially a daughters grieving heart for her mother is something that Very few people can undertand. I lost mama almost a year back. N initially I used to get v v bugged with people trying to tell me that life goes on , this was destined , etc etc. I am filled with pain coz like u , me n mama did everything together. She is my life n she loved me the most. I still wake up in the mornings n my first reaction is to call her.I really don't know what to say to u but I can give one advice. Don't expect anything from others . Coz ur pain is only Urs. Either talk toa counsellor or a very very close girlfriend. N infront of ur kids just try to b normal. Under these circumstances no one can expect u to b jumping around but don't even open ur heart as yet coz the kids may not know how to help. It's only been four days. My honest suggestion to everyone is that pls c a counsellor. Get therapy. I dint n I m paying the price for it now.

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