dear my best friend :((((((((((((((((((

by anonymous

my best friend died 2 days ago..a boy with high speed crashed her and left her dead in the land..she was in the path when he lost control of the car and took her life.. when i heard that i was shocked..i couldn't believe it.all i wanted to hear is that someone called me and told me that its not true ...but unfortunately it wont my opinion and in my cause i have to do something with that guy ..why should my best friend have to die???she was just 18..she had plans for her life..she was too young to die just for a stupid boy who was only 16 and drive with high speed and took her life ..i have a sister and i cant do anything but if i was alone i would hit him without doubt..i will never forget that name who took my best friend from me ..from her family ..from us..from now and on i only have to watch out my friends and to think at my best friend who isn't with me ...thanks ...

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Jun 25, 2013
dear my best friend : ((((((
by: Doreen U.K.

I am sorry for your loss of your best friend. It will make you so angry and is normal. Try and talk to someone and get this anger out of your system so that it won't make you react in a negative way and cause you more problems. Anger does happen in life and is normal but it shouldn't destroy you to the point of revenge.
I have spent a lifetime fighting this so know it will use up too much energy and time. Counselling helped me vent my anger and it evaporated to the point it doesn't rule my life.
What this boy did was irresponsible and he should receive the punishment of the law for a crime no matter how old he is. This boy will have to live with this death for the rest of his life.
Sad to say what happened is very much a strong part of life these days. More and more people are behaving irresponsible and it is the families and friends who have to grieve this loss forever. It will take a lot of time for you to heal from this tragic loss of a life. Your friend was robbed of her future whilst the perpetrators get to live out their life. Life is full of injustice. My husband worked with a substance that gave him cancer and he died 14 months ago. I have been robbed of a future due to ignorance and greed in the workplace that caused his death and the death of many people from this disease. We just have to find a way to go on in life where we can find some sort of Peace. I hope that you will be able to support the family of your best friend as their grief will also be difficult and harsh for a long time.

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