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Death of spouse or true love... Welcome to our "Lost Spouse/ True Love" page. Few losses can be as heart-rending as losing your spouse or true love to a death. How will you ever go on without your life partner? You are sure to miss the closeness and warmth, the secrets and decision-making you both shared. It will not be easy, but you can learn to survive and come back to life without him or her at your side. May you begin to heal by telling others about the loss of your own beloved partner, and also find some comfort in similar stories posted by other bereaved men and women. Ready to tell your story? It's very easy, and there is no cost. Just click in and start writing below: (*Tip: Compose your story first in
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Did You Lose Your True Love/Spouse?Share your story of grief here. What Other Visitors Have SaidClick below to see contributions from other visitors to this page... The perfect man for me I lost my husband Jim to pulmonary hypertension on Sept. 17, 2009. He was on the transplant list for a double lung transplant. We were together for 32 ... Mac Died on July 25, 2010 It?s hard to know how much/little to write here; my husband died unexpectedly a little over 48 hours ago . . . and I don't know whether this site demands ...
Trapped
Im trapped in this house. My Darling Sylvia My wife Sylvia and I had fifty wonderful years of marriage and for that I am grateful. She looked after me for months when I had a life threatening illness.... One month Today is one month since my love left this earth. And today I received in the mail a package, some of the cards and letters I've sent him over the years.... The Picture A moment frozen in time. Desperation, hope and utter hopelessness. I look at a picture of the two of us taken before you left me, and that is what I ... Forever Interrupted On April 24, 2010, my life was changed forever. My 40 year old husband died from a massive heart attack. One minute he was there....the next gone. We were ... My Love, (Francis P. Holt) I Hope that The life that I am carving out for Boo and I meets your expectations. I feel that I do not give the other kids the support that they ...
GIVE HIM BACK TO ME
I'M 26 YRS OLD AND NOW A WIDOW, MY HUSBAND PAST AWAY 2WKS AGO FROM CYSTIC FIBROSIS. I WANT HIM BACK!!!!
My Love My Life My Johnny
I'm 24 an I am a widow already! Life sucks! Richard x Well everyone if your reading this story you must have been thro your own events and loss. My husband was diagnosed with malignant melanoma 1997. Cancer ... How do I get off this roller coaster? One minute I'm fine, the next I'm sobbing uncontrollably. One time I look at your picture and I'm so full of love and have that sweet warmth of your love.... I lost the love of my ife Ten years ago I met a man from West Africa, I had never dated a man of color, I fell deeply and madly in love with him. We saw each other frequently but ... THE LIES How many times before his death, I heard it. How many million of times after his death have I heard it. You will survive, you will heal, and it will ...
How do I love thee? let me count the months...7/6/10
My Love, Today would have been his birthday My husband of twenty years died in his bed after a short but severe illness on May 5, 2009. It was just a few days before my birthday. Today, July 5,...
July 4th Weekend and Yet another holiday without My Love...
July 4th is tomorrow... Loss of a spouse I lost my husband on April 2, 2010, after a long illness where I was his caregiver. I had promised him that I would care for him at home, as long as I ... Butchie's Battle for All His Loved ones.......... It is very difficult to know how to start...I am Lisa( Butchie's, Stanley Anthony Tyrrell's Wife and now Widow). On APRIL 7, 2009 my husband came home ... Loss of husband 7 months ago yesterday Yesterday was a most difficult day for me and depressing. I woke up as sick as I have ever been, and miss my viejo so much. I went to the doctor and am ... Roy On June 10th, 2010, my husband, best friend, confidant, protector and love passed away. He had retired in 2008 and a month later discovered he had two ... My beautiful man I lost my husband on Feb 20th 2010, after he lost consciousness on Jan 1st 2010. We did not wish happy new year to each other that day, we were struggling ... Where am I? I married my High School sweetheart, Jenny, on February 18, 1989. I was 16, she was 18. Everybody told us we would never make it. We knew better. In September ... My Husband, My Best Friend, My Life I lost my husband Joe on 3/6/10. He was my best friend and my whole world. We were married for 10.5 yrs., but together for 18 yrs. When we first met,... My true Love I lost my husband of 18 years in January of this year. He had a seizure in November and it was diagnosed that he had a brain tumor and cancer throughout ... Missing Bill May 30, 2010 I found my best friend and love of my life dead from a heart attack. It seems like a bad dream and I wish I could wake up. I have had many ... Lost Susie On Thanksgiving of last year I lost my best friend, the love of my life, my pal, my loving Husband. He came to me and said he was having trouble breathing ... THE ONLY MAN I EVER REALLY AND TRULY LOVED MY POOCHELINE I GOT WITH HIM BACK IN THE EARLY 80S HES THE MAN I ALWAYS DREAMED ABOUT GOOD LOOKING, BUILT GREAT PERSONALITY, WASN'T SCARED OF ANYONE OR ANYTHING. WHEN ... Lost my Hope and don't know where to go from here Lost my husband...lost my hope and dreams and vision. I can't express the ache in my body, heart, and the clatter in my brain that says "I didn't pray ... She died peacefully on 5/9/2010 My soul mate of 20 years died. I was with her as was her two sisters and our dog. I cannot sleep and Buffy the dog can't either. Lin was my best friend,...
Lydia Rivera - 1955-2010
Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me”.
Memorial Day (weekend) 2010
Memorial Day is to honor all those that fought for our freedom. Even the freedom to have that cookout with friends and family. I Thought it Would Last Forever-3 Josh and I had been together for 3 1/2 years. We were planning on getting married & having children together. He was 19; I 18. We were both attending college ... Grieving wife My husband died on June 25th, 2008 from suicide, I have been struggling daily with this and the waves of grief are unbelievable. What is really hard is ... I miss you more every day I lost my husband four months ago to suicide while he was incarcerated. What makes this so hard to bear is I thought his being arrested would save his ... April I lost my wonderful husband of 40 years on April 3rd in a terrible tractor accident. He had been driving tractors since he was young. He had worked his ... Lost but still here ? I was married in May of 2008, 3 1/2 months later I lost her. Your parents are 2 rocks to keep you steady through life. Losing 1 has put me seriously off ... Lost my husband on June 30, 2009, it feels like yesterday I lost my husband June 30, 2009, and it still feels like yesterday. Sometimes I think I feel him around me, but then I wonder if I am going crazy or do ... loss of husband 6 months ago update It will be 6 months since I lost my husband on May 22nd. I am still missing him and still feel the same intense love for him. I am very busy with work ... lost my dearest dearest love Dan and my self Thomas were almost to together 21 years . 3 1/2 years ago he had a heart attack and the got pml . Was unable to work, i stopped working ... The Mask There are those moments, early in the morning, when I am pulling myself out of the sleep that is induced by sleeping pills, when I look up and he is laying ... My Best Friend, My True Love! I lost my husband last September, he was always home every evening. We spent day and night together, he was always such a joy, we traveled many miles and ...
I Cannot Breathe
Someone asked me the other day how long I planned on grieving.. I said, for the rest of my life.. My wife my best friend my true love May 30th, 2006, started out like every other day, but would end up a day i would never forget. My wife of 21 years died that day suddenly. Out of the blue,...
Francis P. Holt... What stage of grief is this?
It's heading towards the 5th month, May 6th, 2010. My husband,my best friend I lost my husband Gerald (age 36) on 2-1-10. He was driving to a friends house about 20 minutes from home, when he crossed over into the other lane and ... Husband and Best Friend We were married for almost 36 years. Bruce was a gentleman. Always thought of me first. When we met, we knew that we were going to me married. Met in ...
I've lost my Bear
I’ve lost my Bear.
Losing my little soul mate, not quite getting through it, 7 months later..
I never thought at 23 I would have to be saying goodbye to my true love without any kind of warning. Jeannie I lost my companion, it will be 4 months on the 19th of April. I am so lost, I feel like I will totally lose my mind, I cry constantly and so alone. I ... Misko was my everything!!! On January 3rd of 2010, I lost the love of my life. We had been friends for 12 years and we finally crossed paths and started dating. We both were finally ... I just want my wife and son back It started on 12-09-2002, my wife and son were arguing. He pushed her, which started me and Bryan fighting, She got on the phone and called the Dallas ... Carolyn...Love of My Life Today, March 25th, would have been our 37th wedding anniversary. My wife Carolyn drowned in a rafting accident in New Zealand on Jan 17, 2010. I miss ... My baby.. gosh I miss you. 3 years. Now I'm all alone.. My boyfriend of three years passed away on the 14th of March. I am 19.. he would have been 21 in November. He died doing something he loved oh so very ...
Mrs. T. F.
I have been staring at this blank page for 10 minutes and still don't know where to start. Brain Injury...Anyone dealing with this specific Grief? Aug of 08 My Husband found out he had an aneurysm on the left hemisphere. Surgery (9-8-08) was to be 3-5 hours for a clipping. It took 13 hours, there ... Lost my spouse and true love I found out last June that I have cancer. Two weeks later my husband died. We went to our house in Maine on June 28th and he died three hours later. He ... Lost My Love, My Best Friend, My Support - Five Years Later, The Loneliness is Unbearable Five years ago, April 22, 2005, my husband passed away unexpectedly. Two years prior he suffered the same illness, severe asthma, the treatment was the ... My John I lost my John on 16th january 2010 after 39 years being married, this year we would have celebrated our ruby and I just cannot believe that he is gone.... 29 Year Love I met my husband when I was 12 years old and he was 13. He always made me laugh. We talked on the phone until the early morning hours almost every day.... My whole life was pulled out from me in one fatal night I was married for seventeen years, me and husband had two kids one girl and one boy. My husband was a plumber, he worked very hard. He was a wonderful ... Loss of my Best Friend I lost my best friend on Jan 31,2010. We met in Sept of 2008 and we instantly fell in love. We both had bad marriages and we finally found each other.... My Darling Wife Lisa - 8/13/61 - 2/4/2010 After a 3 1/2 year battle with a brain tumor, Lisa died with me and our three boys at her side, telling her how much we loved her. A model wife and mother ... Kristina It started with a toothache at the end of September that my husband took painkillers for. He then had severe diarrhea through the night for around 6 weeks;... My world ended Nov 25, 2009 My husband passed away from complications of a bone marrow transplant (for Leukemia) on 11/25/09. He had been in ICU for 5 weeks with various pneumonias,... Loss of Husband 3 months ago As of 2-22-10 it will be 3 months since my husband went to be with Lord. I think of him all the time and how much he suffered with that heart failure. I ... Gary - The love of my life I lost my husband on January 27, 2010. He was diagnosed in October 2009 with terminal lung cancer. They gave him max a year with chemo and radiation....
My Husband, my friend, my lover, my everything
Selfish suicide My boyfriend committed suicide on Sept 16th and I have been having a very difficult time dealing. He actually disappeared and it took almost two weeks ... Doug - my husband and best friend We met when I was nearly 16 and he was 18. I wasn’t keen to go out with him at first, but two and a half years later, we were married! Since then, I ...
Paul My Cajun Love - I Miss You!
I thought I would be spared, forget what today was. Brian Moriarty On 9th November 2009, my husband of 29 years was diagnosed with Pancreatic Cancer, also in the liver and intestines. The prognosis was 6 months with no ... Lost Without You My love, yesterday would have been your 46th birthday. I could not get out of bed. I miss you more than words can begin to describe. I still think you ... My True Love...Ronnie Lee Underown Ronnie was my life, my world, my everything!!! I have so much to deal with and it is overwhelming me. I know that I am not the only person that has ever ...
My Daisy
My Wife, Daisy Baillie, passed away on Jan 09, 2010... Too Sudden; Too Young He was here; then he was gone. My beloved husband. He got up the morning of October 20, 2009 expecting to go out with me and help me with an errand. He ...
My wife, my angel, my whole world
This past Tuesday, January 12, 2010, my wife of 13 years passed on to her next job as an angel. And every moment without her is unbearable. My Beloved We met. I was 15, he was 18. We had 45 years of love, companionship, tenderness and, and ... How do you express being connected at so deep a level that ... The half that made me whole: Francis P. Holt 12/06/09 The Half that made me whole died 12/06/09, a mere month ago. Instead of getting easier, it is getting harder. The grief overwhelms me at times, sometimes ... Stephy and Stan I met Stan 4 years ago. He was 18 years older than me and all of his friends and family thought I was with him for his money. When we met it was love at ... Losing the Love of My Life Chuck and I had a unique relationship. We ran away together and deserted our respective spouses 14 years ago. Of course it was a reprehensible thing to ... I lost the man who showed me life My husband was in an accident October 21st, I still have not received all the information about his death. I hate that word, it makes me so mad, because ... My friend, My heart, My husband On October 2, 2009 I lost my husband of 21 years at the young age of 56. Not only was he my husband, he was my best friend. When the light went out in ... I lost the only person who ever understood me... On November 15, 2009, my partner of 5 years died suddenly at the age of 39 at 10pm. Earlier that day he’d said he didn’t feel well and went to lay down....
Loss of the Love of My Life my Beloved Mike
We met when I was 9 yrs old in a park and he was 13. I joked around and said I was going to marry him. Mack It was the night of February 9, 2009, a date I will never be able to forget. Mack and I had been having marital problems since October of last year, and ... My lovely husband died of cancer, 2 weeks after being diagnosed My husband and I met when I was just 17 and he 24. I am now 46. We had just returned from seeing our son and his wife in America. We had only been home ... Moose My husband of 26 years died suddenly in my arms at the age of 62. I knew he was failing lately, but never expected him to leave so suddenly. His heart ... Randy 12-21-60--9-3-09 My husband was taken away from me suddenly. He was on his way home from work on his motorcycle and a lady turned in front of him. It happened at 5:30 ... Almost 40 My boyfriend commited suicide this past Monday, (labor Day weekend). It's horrible, I can't believe someone can do this to their loved ones. I'm still ...
Cancer has taken my husband!
My husband died of cancer on 5th August, 2009. He was 54 years old. Jim,-My Soul, My Life, My Everything I met Jim the summer of 1969, I knew the first day I saw him that we would marry. I was 16. We were married June 1970 and celebrated our 39th anniversary ... Gerome It has been 8 1/2 weeks since i got the worse news of my life. I think i will never forget that day of May 28th 2009. It was my husbands brother that had ...
Hospital loss of loved one, and so much love...
I think it is appalling when a loved one dies and you cannot find out why. I have written, emailed, called at least 12 agencies.
When does it let up?
In February 2005 my sweet Ian walked up the steps to our house, paused and said, "My hip hurts." That's when our world fell apart.
How can a person go on after such a loss?
My Wife of 48 years died on April 25th at about 3:00 a.m. The gift of a new life given by a loved one. I didn't want this new life, I hadn't planned it, desired or even wanted it, but given it was, on the 11th December 2008. Plunged into a single life again.... First Love Died/Grief will not let up. The first real love of my life died on April 10, 2009. I have not seen him in 30+ years. I have been with my husband for 26 years and I love him so much.... Grieving Wife We had planned not to have a big party on our 50th Anniversary. We had decided the two of us would celebrate. But four months before we were to celebrate,... My husband, love of my life and best friend I was only 14 years old when we met and he was 16. This year 2009, was our 21st year together. Our relationship was the envy of many, we were like twins.... The day my husband and our children's dad died. I remember the day very clearly. Tim had not been feeling very well over the last few weeks, we just thought it was something that would pass, maybe a ... My Billy, I miss you On Jan 3 2009 my 46 year old husband called me on his way home from work, saying he had a wonderful day and was so inspired by the people he worked with....
The love of my life
1st loves are always hard to get over. But when they pass away, I wonder if you ever do get over the hurt.
The Loss of my Angel
On February 6, 2009, I lost the love of my life, Haiden. The Last Beautiful Day It was the first day of spring, a beautiful day in March - the kind where you catch glimpses of the spring that is about to come. I worked the night shift ... Ann Elder My sweet wife of 20 years went from (apparently) exuberant good health to being on a respirator, fatally wounded by apparent complications from a minor ... My first love is Don, Don and I met in December, and after 5 weeks we were married. We were married for 33 years. He was my soul mate and the love of my life. He have 5 children ... She was on her way... On March 15th 2009, my best friend and my lover, Maegan Janz, was involved in a tragic accident on her way to see me from Bonnyville, and she was pronounced ... Our Love Will Last Forever My husband passed away 4 months ago. He had heart failure and collapsed. He died 24 hours later. I am not handling his death very well. I think about how ... A widow (it stills seems strange to be called that) I'm not sure I know how to do this. It was 2 years ago on Sept. 8 that Charlie, my husband of 39 years, passed away. Passed away- what a wrong way to ... The Loss of My Beautiful Husband Mark was my husband who I loved dearly. I met him in 1995. He was going through some difficulty in his personal life. He asked me out and I fell in love.... It's so Quiet Near the end of August, my husband was complaining of back pain, saw our Doctor who diagnosed osteoarthritis and sent him home with pain killers. He went ...
Vows
My name is Elizabeth and I've recently lost my husband. I am the mother of a precious 15 month old little boy. One More Day I awoke yesterday at my normal 3:30 AM time to get ready for work. I always rise quietly so I won't disturb my wife of 18 years. It was just another day,... My Jeannie This is the night after my wife's death. As I sit here in my lonely apartment I feel so terribly empty. It happened so fast. I called 911 for an ambulance ...
Christopher Michael Fisher
Chris and I were together for two years. There is so much to tell of our story. We lived a lifetime together in two years. Rick Wow, where to begin? On April 1, 2005 I was at work when my husband, Rick, called. The sound of his voice told me everything. All I remember is standing ... He was the love of my life and my soulmate It was love at first sight almost 30 years ago. I was only 18, he was 22. Six months after we met we went out on our first date, the second date on the ... Summer Love,Summer Loss" 2007" This tragedy did creep up on us. Lessons were learned because of my beloved husband Mikes' sudden death. We are seniors who only wanted to let life finally ... Noel My boyfriend Noel died 2 weeks and 3 days ago. I was with him for almost 6 years. We lived together for 2 of these years, but were not living together ...
STOP PLEASE JUST STOP
STOP, please, please stop My Soul Mate is gone July 1st of this year, I lost my wife, Jan, to that insidious disease, cancer. This coming July 28th would be the 30th anniversary of our 1st date - yeah,...
Losing The Love of My Life
Tommy and I met 38 years ago. Young kids who fell in love. Circumstances parted us. We had separate lives but never forgot each other. I'll never again pick up the phone and hear "Hi, Babe!" I met Leroy 31 years ago. He was a beat cop and I a graveyard shift waitress. There were lots of cops who came in. They clowned, flirted, and were boisterous.... Mary Just came upon this website; feel bit more normal as i felt i shouldn't still be in such a mess after 3 and half years of losing my soulmate. Everyone ... After 50years 1 month and 16 days I am alone for the 1st time My guy was always healthy and strong. He probably missed work less than two weeks during those 50 years. I always have had a weight problem and was absolutely ... The Love of My Life March 20, 2010 was the absolute worst day of my life! I did not know he was as sick as he was until then. I will NEVER forget the most heart breaking ... MY SHAD On August 9, 2009, my husband drowned. We will have been married for 18 yrs on June 15. Like most relationships we had our ups and downs. At the time ... I Lost My First Love and My Soulmate February 22, 2010 I lost my soul mate. We had been married for 26 years and divorced the last 6 years. He had liver disease for 12 years and I never thought ...
Four Months like yesterday a forever ago...12/06/09 Francis P. Holt
I remember you at the oddest times. Why Did You Leave Me With So Much Hurt? One year ago, you went into the hospital and never came out. You left me, my sweetheart. I am still so hurt by some your actions during the end of your ...
Loss of husband
I am giving an update on how I am coping since the loss of my husband. It will be 4 months on March 22. Caveman I met adam in the spring of 2008. He was the kind of guy that I had always seen myself with. We started to date on March 25. We had a difficult relationship.... Endless Tears I lost my love my life that night. The lyrics of a Pearl Jam song sum up what happened. I was waiting for him to come and see me, he didn't make it. I ... January 27th, 2006 and still grieving..... Almost four years ago my husband died of brain cancer. It was sudden and although we were to have him for 8 more months, it was only 3 weeks. It was ... Loss Of Husband On Nov 22 2009, my husband went to be with the Lord. He was 70 yrs old. He had stents put in his heart at a cardiac hospital and only lived a week after ... The Other Half Of My Heart At the age of 51 and 51, we were married. Things were great ! I suppose it is not common to think about bad things ahead, and we didn't. Only the good ...
Nancy, a beautiful soul lost to cancer...
God how she fought to stay alive!! And although suffering tremendously, she always thought about how others felt, and wanted them to be happy.... We had such a short time together.... We had both been in previous relationships with alcoholics, we met and immediately fell in love and married within two short years. He went out to work ...
You're supposed to be able to control your life
This is a nightmare; to say I lost my husband to cancer after 24 amazing years of marriage and three happy, intelligent children.
It's Too Late
I lost my husband in May of 2008. I was 19 when I married him, so I have spent my whole adult life with him by my side, more than 43 years. I've lost my Angel Angel Perez was the love of my life & my best friend. We'd met some 10 years ago, by accident. Ours was a fast & hard love. Through many ups & downs, not ... forgetmenot I lost my dear husband to liver cancer on July 28th, 2009. A day etched forever in my memory as the worst day of my life. Everyday is a chore. The tears ... Shell Shocked My story: My husband and I were splitting our living conditions for a while due to his excessive drinking. We hadn’t told many people – the relationship ... Saying good bye to Jack I met jack in 1999, I loved him from the start. I married him in 2002. We had a good marriage for several years, then in 2006 he disappeared. I didn'...
Not sure that I'm here with him gone...
I watched my love die on August 16. He had a massive Heart Attack, and we didn't even know he was sick. My Love, Russ I first met Russ in the late eighties and dated for a few months and then broke up. I told him he was making a huge mistake because I knew in my heart ...
My Beautiful Darling, My Best Friend Ever, My Soulmate has Gone
On 19th July 2009 my most Precious, adored and treasured Darling passed away in hospital after a long and arduous illness. 40 years not enough I was a Sophmore at a prestigous Southern University. I had graduated from a high school in Florida unknown to me, there was a girl who was one year behind ... Great Loss My Husband always left me in the bed if I had the day off and he had to work, so the morning started like any other day off but around 7 am my preacher ... Barbara Steve was the Love of my Life. He and I met when I was 14, started dating when I was 15 and got married as soon as I graduated from high school. I was ... My 'Gary'. We had first met at a Christian Teen Camp at Nanoose Bay, here on Vancouver island, in mid July 1972. I was there, with 5 girlfriends as dishwashers, as ... Jim-san In August of 2007, Jim thought he'd pulled a muscle in his back getting his luggage off the plane. He went to the doctor & they thought the same. In ... My Husband My Soulmate My husband, Todd, and I knew we were meant to be together from our first date. We dated for 1 month before he asked me to marry him. (We knew each other ... I hate drunk drivers My boyfriend was killed at 3PM on New Year's Eve by a drunk driver. Yes...drunk at 3PM...0.30 alcohol level...third drunk driving arrest in two years...doing ...
It Still Hurts
It is the day after Christmas, 2008. I am not sure how updated this online forum is. I Love My Love Because I Know My Love Loves Me I started talking to Rob right when I graduated high school in May of 2005. He had just graduated as well. I lived in Houston and he lived in a suburb ...
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