Devastated by brain aneurysm
Hi Everyone. I have been deep in grief for the last 2 months. My boyfriend suffered a brain aneurysm at the beginning of August and survived, however he is not the same person at all. He wants me to move on with my life as he now says he feels nothing at all for me. He does not want to talk to anyone else either.
I moved to Toronto to be closer to him in June and things were wonderful - we were very much in love. And then this happened to him and it not only traumatized him, it has also traumatized me. I have moved back home but can't seem to stop crying and missing him. I can't understand how someone who loves you so much one day, wakes up and feels nothing for you anymore.
He has a lot of anger and frustration over the aneurysm and has short term memory issues. He wants to return to work but isn't able to until his memory improves. In so many ways I understand how he feels, but my heart just doesn't.
How are you supposed to move on when you are so deeply in love with someone and you know they are still there. I know that he does still love me, he just has pushed all emotions aside. How do I move on as he wishes? I need to stop crying - it's getting ridiculous :).