by Fiona

Hi, six weeks ago my partner of seven years told me that he was no longer in love with me anymore once i had discoverd that he lied about what city he was working in, we have two sons aged five and 8 months, he moved out the family home and went to stay with a friend, I kept asking why he felt like this and all he could keep saying was that he didn't know, we spoke everyday and he saw the kids and I kept asking him if this is what he really wanted and could we not try and make it work for the kids and he kept saying he didn't know and this went on for five weeks, deep down I knew he wouldn't walk out me and the kids for that reason so i decided to get his contact numbers off his phone and there was another woman's phone number so I called it up and couldn't believe my ears when she told me that she had been in a relationship with my partner for the past nine months and that they had been on holiday abroad when he told me he was working away and he had even met her parents with our family car so basically hes been cheating on me when I was pregnant and still carried on the affair while our son nearly died of meningitis, she claims he told her we had separated when they met, as of now the two of them are giving there relationship a try and he has told me that he would have left me anyway even if he hadn't had met her even tho he was crying to me when he first left saying that he hopes he's not making the biggest mistake of his life! I'm furious and feel deeply sorry for the children, I never questioned my feelings for him, I feel like hes got her and still sees the children and I'm left to just accept this, my heart is breaking, I honestly didnt know anything was wrong.

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