divorce after 24 1/2 yrs of marriage

by MELISSA WILLIAMS
(DRUMMONDS,TN)

My husband has left me for his brothers ex wife, she has even left her 2nd hubby w/children to come & live w/my husband, she arrived here in tn on 3-11-11. i moved outta home we shared together on 12-11-10, how this all came about is she came to Tn to visit my hubby back in beginning of Nov 2010, after her wkend visit & his behavior that wkend i noticed a chg in him so i confronted him about his unusual behavior & lo & behold thats when he told me that they have been in love w/ea other & had strong feelings 4 each other for the last 25 yrs. we have 3 grown boys 2 were born during the marriage & i had a son b4 the marriage. he says he never loved me, doesn't honestly know why he married me, but stayed becuz of the kids which there has never been a bond or relationship between them.

i thought i was handling it pretty well after i moved out & was in counseling for a lil while, but now that the realization of her living here & them being together has really hit me hard, for i know that there are gonna be times that i will see them out @ store & etc as we live in small towns. but i have very loving, caring, praying& supporting family & friends, so my next step is to have him sign divorce papers.