emotinally dumped and devastated
(Long Island , NY)
my husband of 33 years has decided to stop coming home and doesn't tell me where he has been. Recently he has been so distant. He blames me for not being emotionally engaged with him.He says that he loves me but does not spend time with me or make love any more either. He says that it has been going on for years. We have had our ups and downs but i really believed that he was my best friend and my lover. Since he has disengaged i cant stop crying and i feel like a wreck. He still lives at the house but is so distant . I find my self waiting for him and it makes me sick .He strings me along to take care of his aunt, business fiances and every thing else. i have gone above and beyond in this relationship.Our children are all adults why is this happening to me?