My sons wife tormented him for a year & a half before he chose death. We live in the same town & she has my 3 grandsons so I have to stay in contact with her because of the boys. I never seen her cry a month after my sons death she is seeing someone, she brings him to my grandsons baseball games, all smiles when she is asked how she is doing she says fabulous.. Really how they knew each other since they were 13 years old married for 16 years and have 3 boys. How do I stop the anger & rage I have for her. Don't tell me not to talk to her or be around hr because then that means I don't see the boys & we need each other more then ever.