Finally Tomorrow !

by Jack

Tomorrow after a little more then 3 months I can finally bury Håkan's ashes with his family in the family plot here in Sweden. I have waited so long to do this. I'm so sad most of the time and always very tired and on the brink of crying. I have done so much these last 3 months I know Håkan would be very proud of me. I'm moving home soon to New York City after 20 years in Sweden. I will leave him here where he belongs by the farm he was born in and loved. It is the end of a chapter and the beginning of a new one. It is what we planned when Håkan was dying in the hospital. It is what he wanted for me. I'm scared but i know it will be ok and I know its the right thing to do. Thank you to this website. It has helped me so much being able to read other peoples stories. We must try to be strong and to live a good life. thats what our partners would want for all of us. Thank you all so much

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Jun 17, 2011
It Hurts So Bad
by: TrishJ

I am so sorry for your loss. My husband passed away 6 months ago. I did so much reading on grief and loss. Most of the written material instructed me to hold on to a few cherished personal items but it was best to move surroundings~new furniture. It was hard at first. I wanted to cling on to what was. I'm in a new apartment now and I have felt so relaxed and refreshed the last few weeks. I will always treasure my husband and all the memories we had together. He will forever remain in my heart. We have two beautiful children and three tiny little grandsons to remind me of him daily. He will remain forever in my heart but I know now that I have to move on. I know he's watching over me and will be with me until we meet again in heaven. Our loved ones want us to be happy. It makes them happy. I think you are making a wise decision to return to the US. Surround yourself with good friends and all who truly care about your happiness. Releasing the ashes is very comforting and peaceful. You will be amazed at how good it feels. We don't like to say goodbye but we have to ~ it's healthy and brings that final calm.
Peace and blessings to you.

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