gone away not even to say good bye

my parents were going though a devoforce and i was living in a apartment with my family.one day i and my family were going to go see my daddy when i was waiting in the car with my big brother when then i saw my moms face covered with tears she had told me and my brother to wait at the neighbors house.when i got home my mom had told me the news i was only 8 when that happend and it was 2 days until it was my brothers birthday i then had gone on into 3rd grade filled with sadness but came out strong hearted i still cry as i go on to 4th grade as a 9 year old.as my mommy says he my daddy from a deises that had to do with his feelings. what's his deises called and if it will ever have a cure remanse a mystery.

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Jul 31, 2012
gone away not even to say good bye
by: Doreen U.K.

Dear Brokenhearted, I am sorry for your loss of your daddy who didn't say good bye. It is a sad fact of life that we are living in a fractured world with fractured families and divorce is all too common. You were too young to know what was going on. You were perhaps too young to understand what goes wrong in the Adult world. You are now getting older and this experience still haunts you as if it was yesterday. No one has sat you down and helped you to understand that you are not to blame for what has gone on. All you know is that your daddy has gone and you don't know why? You don't know why your daddy didn't say good bye to you. This will make you feel as if you weren't loved by your daddy that he didn't see you before he left.
Little lady try and understand that your Mom and daddy were so upset and hurt by the divorce that they could only stay in their own worlds trying to cope with what was happening. they wouldn't have purposely neglected you. When people are hurting they hurt back and sometimes the children suffer. This is just the symptoms of the disease of the emotions. People break down mentally and they call it a break down. If this happens then the Mom or daddy will be too ill to respond to even his children. When there are no answers try and not think on the worst. Children are often the casualties of divorce. This doesn't happen on purpose. Is there no one in your family who you can go to, to find the answers and also the support for your grief. Please write back to us here. So we know that you are not left alone. You need understanding family around you to help you through adolescence and into the transition of Adulthood. You need to try and resolve all the difficulties you have gone through as a child so that you don't suffer as you grow older. This will only cause complications and frustrations for you later in life. You can go on to live a very productive life with the correct support.

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