gone but never forgotton

by carla

febuary 3rd 2013....worse day of my life i got in from a night with my friends and i had some food and went up to be my dad heard me and ame out of his room and kissed my forehead goodnight,3.00am i heard my mum shouting my dad so i jumped up and went in she was screaming his name saying he wont wake up i was confused and trying to wake my daddy up he wouldnt si i phoned the ambulance and they came and he was up stairs for ages and wouldnt let me up he was rushed to hospital and we was sat in a waiting room for ages and they came in and told us the horrible news i coulnt believe it he was fine that night few days later they told us it was a heart attack :( i just cant get over it im 16 with no dad i always pretend im okay when im not i dont know how to cope with it all i wake up everyday wishing it was a bad dream

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May 02, 2013
I can relate
by: Blaine

I lost my Dad May 19, 2012 I was only 16. I turned 17 on May 24. On May 19, 2012 I was on my way to my Junior prom with my date. I got a phone call to come to come home. So I came home and found out my dad was working on the lawn mower and it fell and crushed his chest. The doctors say he died within 3 minutes.
It does not get better but it gets easier to handle. I still have my bad days but I don't have as many as I use to. I have more now because the one year is coming up. I learned support groups help me the most even the one's on Facebook and the internet. Talking about it really helps and think of the good memories.

Apr 12, 2013
gone but never forgotton
by: Doreen U.K.

Carla I am sorry for your loss of your dad to a sudden death. You are so very young and will need to perhaps see a counsellor to help you move forward. You can see a school counsellor who will support you and help you move beyond this loss of a very important person in your life. Make sure your mom is O.K. and that she gets the support she needs from family, friends, and also professionally if she needs this. It is a very difficult place to be. I know what you are going through and it will stay this way for a while but won't last. It will take a lot of time for you to heal from this loss.
May God continue to be with you and bless and keep you safe and help your all as a family through your grief.

Apr 11, 2013
i can relate
by: Anonymous

i'm 19,i lost daddy in a car accident 4 months ago in a blink of an eye within 1 hours after the accident even though they've been telling us he was fine ,we didn't get to say goodbye and i don't know if that could make it a little easier
all i know that i can relate to every word you've said you are not alone in this
I'm heart broken like never before and this kind of pain is like hell on the earth
i miss him so much ..it's not the same without him
and I'm pretending to be fine too but the second I'm alone i broke down
it feels like it's not ending even though the symptoms are gone but the wound is too deep ...you feel the pain in every nerve you have ,it's killing you slowly but you are the only one who can feel it
I'm sorry i know that might be not helping i just thought maybe knowing you are not alone in this could help and i needed to get it out too
you will be okay,you will survive this
stay strong :)

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