Grieving over a lost relationationship

I was in a marriage for six years with a husband who was verbally abusive. He decided to cheat on me with someone and I feel like he was living two different lives and this was more apt to happen because he finally had his own car. This soon to be ex husband thought in his mind it was okay to kiss other people along with playing cyber sex over a web cam instead of coming to me. I find out now he has cheated on every person her has been with. I wish I found out sooner because I put my whole heart into the relationship and thought it would be forever. He doesn't have a job and had the nerve to say to a friend she left me with no money. Steams me. Need help with my emotions and going through a lot of them. I am going to get the rest of my stuff Saturday and then to set up for the divorce. He says he will never get back with me now that I have left. But I know it was the right thing in my part.

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Oct 16, 2014
Grieving over a lost relationship
by: Doreen UK

Of course you are doing the right thing to walk away from your husband who is cheating and destroying your self esteem if you stay. He has the nerve to tell you that he won't take you back, as if you are the one with the problem.
You are a wise woman. You know that what he is doing is destroying your marriage/relationship. It can't continue. He isn't even taking any responsibility for his actions/behavior and not even one bit remorseful.
You can always see a grief counselor to help you through the chaos of a divorce and with your emotions that will be very painful at the moment.
Life is so very difficult today and the biggest problem in society is cyber INFIDELITY. It even causes men to exploit children and ruin lives. This is an evil that is not getting better but worse as it slowly poisons the soul and the people in its path.
I hope you have good family support and friends to help you as you try to get your life back on track. This is an atmosphere that would be impossible to live in. The sooner you are out of this environment you will start to heal and get your life back. It is worse when you love someone so much that you can't imagine such brokenness 6 years into your relationship. It will take time but with good support you will get your life back and recover from grief.

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