Guy Simmons 63 years young.

by Debbie
(Fergus Falls, MN)

Guy was and will be the love of my life. We were together for 30 years. He was my boss, my best friend and I was so much in love with him. How do you say that 2 people lived and loved so much and be so close. We were so much alike, but so different. He completed me as I competed him.

There is a void in my life that I will never see again.
I was his left arm and he was my right. It is too hard to say that we competed each other.

When I had to put a video tribute to him, I was looking for music that said how he loved and how we loved. the only thing I could come up with at that time was. Love Hurts by buddy holley.{sp}

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Mar 04, 2012
7 months and counting
by: Anonymous

It has been 7 months, I lost my Dad and my husband at the same time. I was with my dad when he passed. I was lucky enough to be there for him. I will always be thankful that I got to spend his last days with him. Because I was in a different State, with my Dad, I didn't know that my husband was going to. My husband was a alcoholic (sp) I knew he would drink himself to death,I just didn'think or care what he was doing. It was very inportant for me to be with my Dad.
I was able to bury my dad and I am so thankful that I was there for him. Now the sad part. I lived with my husband for 30 years. I loved him and took care of him.
I just can't get past the not being able to say goodbye. The last time I saw him was when I got on a bus to go see my dad. I gave my husband a kiss on the cheek and said see you later. I just didn't know that would be are final goodbye.
I was with my dad when he took his last breath.
I was able to have an open casket for my dad.
My husband was a diffent story,
I never got to see his body or to kiss him the final goodbye. because of the state of his body, he had to be cremated.

Jan 01, 2012
Happy New Year
by: TrishJ

I'm so sorry for your loss. It hurts to lose the one we loved for so many years. There is a void that never fills but with the passage of time it does get easier to recall our beautiful memories. I couldn't look at pictures of my husband for 9 months following his death. Now I can look at them, it still hurts, but I see that sparkle in his eyes and I know he is with me. Always.....
Take your life on day at a time. Don't look too far into the distant future. You are doing good just to wake up and put one foot in front of the other.
God Bless. Happy 2012.

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