My bf and I have been together for almost 3 years. We have always had a great relationship and he always said how lucky he was to have me. Everyone was jealous of our relationship and said we were gonna get married. We hung out 3-4 days a week and we both were fine with that. So I thought. I work the night shift 2-10 and he worked til 11 sometimes later. Recently we have been discussing our future together and we were even talking about buying a house. He got a 2nd job within the past month to save up for our future and said he wanted to give me all his checks to save for us. He lived about 40 mins away from me and sometimes we wouldn't hang out because of that. But that only made him want to live with me more. He would say I can't wait til we live together and that he missed me all of the time. Then he got the opportunity to live with his friends and be closer to me and took that. He asked me to move in with them as well. The day after he asked me to move in with them he stayed the night at my house kissed me said I love you and went to work. Later that night I texted him and asked if he wanted to hang out. He replied maybe and I said if you don't want to you don't have to. Then he says that he kinda wants to talk tonight . so then I immeditaley ask if I should be worried and he replies eh. So I got mad and said he can't just say eh. I asked what it was about and he said us. Then I said are you breaking up with me? And he said well that's why I wanted to talk. I then asked again and he said yes I can't be with you anymore idk. I freaked and said why would you do this to me after 3 years and ask me to move in with you the day before. He said I just want to be alone for a while and says he's sorry. I told him I need a better answer than that then he says it's been getting kinda boring lately and he didn't want to feel trapped. I had no idea where this was coming from. I asked if we could talk in person and he said yes. I met him at his work and he seemed off. He wouldn't make eye contact and kept saying idk to everything I was asking. I asked if he still loved me and he said yes but... I need to be single. I walked away crying. I got a text from him after saying i don't know what to say except I'm sorry. I asked if he just wanted to see other girls and party and he said no babe I swear it's not that and I wish I had a better answer .He kept saying he was sorry and he needs to do this for himself and he never meant to hurt me. I asked if he was still in love with me and he said idk babe. He then said he wasn't happy with the person he is and he needs to figure out how to be. I begged him to try to make it work and he kept saying I need to do this for me, I'm sorry. I told him that I would wait for him no matter what cuz he's the only one I want to be with. He said I just need some time. I was devastated and still am. it's been a week since and idk what to think. I have texted him once telling him that I left his dresser and clothes on my porch whenever he wants to get it and he said ok. Then a few days later I told him I hope he's doing ok and I will always love him and I got no answer. I am in contact with his brothers gf and she told me that he got so wasted a few days after the break up and passed out in the front yard and his brother helped him inside. Which is unlike him. She told me that everyone is shocked by this and he didn't tell anyone anything. Not even his family. This literally came out of no where. I'm so hurt and confused and idk if I should wait or move on.