Valentines Day was so hard. Roger and I met on Valentines Day. He was a construction worker. Kind of rough around the edges. But he would have given you his shirt off his back. He loaned a friend $4000 A few months before he passed away to help his daughter with college. When I reminded his friend about it he said that he didn't borrow it his daughter did and I would have to get the money from her How sad some people are. This was supposed to be one of his best friends. A friend Roger said would help me after he died and I could count on him. So much for friends. Roger was the sweetest man. Even after 34 years of marriage he introduced me as his bride. I miss him so much and the pain is almost unbearable.