How Can It Be?!

My big, beautiful, sweet son was larger than life; how is it that he is gone from it? Dylan, Christmas is so hard without you my love! The 21st marks nine months you have been gone; the same amount of time it took God, your father and I to create you. I suppose your circle of life is complete now darling boy. The twinkle of a tree, the frost of snow, the smile on a little childs face, the sound of carols, the laughter of friends and family, and the peace of knowing you are my forever child will comfort me this Holiday season...I miss you with every breath of my soul.


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Dec 22, 2011
by: Sandy

I lost my 28 yr old son 11 months ago and so many memories are in Christmas, I grieve for the my sons first christmas, christmas when he was a toddler, a teenager, a young man a adult. Too many memories to think about all at once. Oh how I miss him. Trying to hold on to one memory of to get me through. Right now thats all I can take.

Dec 21, 2011
Love my son
by: Anonymous

Dimitri has been gone now for 16 months and 12 days. I miss him with every beat of my heart. Leukemia stole him away from me 27 days after he turned 23. He had so much spunk and spirit and was one of the sweetest boys ever. He had such a bright future, was so smart and so dedicated. I will never understand why this happened. He is and always will be my sweet baby boy. I love you Meems.

Dec 20, 2011
I love you Jimmy.
by: Glori

I know exactly how you feel. Lost my oldest son a little over 7 months ago. He was also larger that life. 34 yrs old. Biggest lover there ever was.Hugs all the time. He passed in a motorcycle accident. He love that bike...Guess he went the way he wanted. Only consolation was that he did not suffer. Instant. Will love him forever & ever, as will everyone else.

Dec 20, 2011
Thank you.
by: Ruth Mattucci

Amen, beautifully said. This is the second Christmas with out my dear son. I loved your post.
God Bless you.

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