how could she go

by Diana thomas
(france)


my name is diana,and my mother passed away on july 11th,2012.she died not because of cancer or anything but due to medical irresponsibility,due to overdose of anesthesia it lead to cardiac arrest and she was no more.im not able digest that she cant talk to me ,i cant see her,and she cant come back again .many people tried to console me but iam not able to survive without her and iam feeling like hell to lie this world,i cant live without my mother i don't even have any hope for good to happen .im worried about my dad and my sister,iam just 17 and i dont understand how can i live without my mother .but one thing i could say is all people are lucky those who are having there both parents

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Nov 03, 2012
11th July 2012
by: Sob

Like you, I lost my mother on 11th of July 2012. I know nothing I say will make you feel any better. Nothing can prepare you for this loss. Nothing got better for me. People say it takes time to heal. I don't think one can overcome this loss, ever. You just learn to live with it. She will always be in your heart forever. You will always have memories of your time spent with her. Cherish them. It's all you have got now. I would give anything to get my mother back. But she won't come back and I have to carry on. The pain of losing a mother is unbearable. But we still have to carry on. I still look for her when i get up in the morning. I still take my cellphone and dial her number to ask where she is when I don't find her in the house. I still call for her name when I can't decide what to cook. I always used to cook what she used to ask for. When I look in the mirror, I still think of all those times when I used to put make up on her. Everything reminds me of her. I'm sure the same would be happening to you. Life isn't fair. Not to you, not to me. But there is nothing we can do about it.
Take care of your remaining loved ones. May be you would find some peace in that.

Oct 26, 2012
thinking of you
by: Anonymous

Sorry to hear your story. Its so so hard to lose someone so
special. No one can truely know how you feel inside. My mum died suddenly 3 months ago. She wasnt ill, she just tripped and fell down her stairs. She died from her head injury. My life will never be heald. But im sure my mum would want me to carry on. Im sure your mum would want the same for you. Dont be rushed in you greif, but do talk to someone. Thinking of you.

Oct 24, 2012
Loss
by: Donna

Im so sorry to hear about your mom, I lost my Mom Oct 10th 2012. 2 wks ago today, I feel your pain, I too dont know how Im gonna go on without her. I cant stand the thought of never seeing her again. I am still in somewhat disbilef, I feel numb at times, no feelings at all and suddnely Im out of control with crying, Please hang in there, Im trying to. I feel all I have to do is let go and Id go crazy but I know I cant do that I have my children to think of although that at times doesnt even matter. Its killing me but I must get control I know my Mom would want me to, you can do it too, your Mom would want you to.

Oct 23, 2012
how could she go
by: Doreen U.K.

Diana I am sorry for your loss of your mother to a sudden tragic death. I urge you to see a grief counsellor URGENTLY. You are on the edge and in unbearable pain. You need outside support immediately. I lost my mom 9 years ago. I am just beginning to feel this loss more since I lost my husband 5 months ago to cancer.
There is always a risk with anaesthetic. We are always told this before an operation but we never think it would happen for real.
When we have a headache we can take a pill to get rid of this. But for GRIEF there is no medication. IT is PURE PAIN. You wonder how you will survive. Surround yourself with supportive family and friends. This is very important. Let someone know how desperate you are feeling. Go to your doctor. Tell him you are desperate and in pain of grief and can't hold onto Life. This is an EMERGENCY. You owe it to yourself. Change your FOCUS. Don't focus on your loss. It will compound your pain. Sadly we have to GO THROUGH the pain. There is no easy way to HEAL FROM GRIEF. May God hold you in his arms and your family and Comfort you and give you Peace and HOPE IN YOUR GRIEF.

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