I dont know what to do now?

by Tina
(new york)

I was 17 he was 16 I fall in love. I was engaged to he by now at age 19. We talk and made happens about the wedding. Now I'm 20 we have been together forever it seems. I stared seeing him change and not loving me as much. I would always ask if he still did and if anything was wrong but he always said everything was fine. A month after talking about how I felt like he didnt care about me anymore. He dumped me for another girl. He wrote me in a text saying I just dont see use being together. And I never want to see or talk to you again. He is the only guy I have ever loved and still do. It has been 6 months now and I feel like im still stuck in the sadness part of grief. What do I do? He has dated 3 girls already but I still feel like i cant live without him. He was my everything. I just wish I didnt care about him because he doesnt about me.Please help.

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Jan 18, 2012
The old saying.....
by: Anonymous

Hi there! I'm sorry hear about what you are going through. I know how it feels when you are in love with that person because they are who you ever been with. It will take time to heal. Whatever it is don't let this relationship hold you back. You are still young and you can still find love again. I wish you the best luck and don't give up. The right men for you is out there!

Jan 18, 2012
You will be happy again!
by: Yulduz

Dear Tina, I am so sorry for what you are going through. But please remember one thing: very beautiful happiness is waiting you ahead. God sees how wonderful lady you are, He sees your big and pure heart, your crystal soul and your situation. You know, God's ways are so miraculous and God's blessings are always coming to the person with pure heart. Please stop crying, please look around - so many good people around. I do strongly believe that you will be happy again! You deserve very good and very beautiful blessings from God!

Jan 18, 2012
Move on
by: judith in California

Tina, what you do is move on. Please don't waste another second thinking of him. You will find someone one day who will treat you with the respect you deserve. When a guy starts pulling away he is almost always involved with another girl and he will always lie about it. How can you love someone who disrespected you like that. Get your self esteem back and go out there and start dating too. Yes it hurts to know someone didn't love you back but you must realize it wasn't meant to be. God puts people in our lives for a reason. This one was to help you grow and learn.

You deserve better. The best revenge is to do well.

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