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I loss my Older Son Vale

by MaryEsther Dehoyos
(San Antonio, TX Bexar)

Hello Everyone. On November 19,2011 my son Vale had gone to sleep and never woke up. He had work a double shift at his work. The next day Sunday he needed to get up for dialysis and he didn't wake up. He passed away during the nite in his sleep. My younger son found him lying in his bed and with his arms covering over his head. We spent time with him thursday nite, he (Vale) made fideo soup for us to eat. He seems fine to us talking and laughing. He didn't complaint that he was having any pain at all.

Now, one month later my family and I all missed him so much, Vale was our leader and helper around the house. We are so loss with out him. These days are hard to live especially over the holidays. I pray to God ask him for emotional support and guidance.

A crying mother
MaryE

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I loss my Older Son Vale

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SAN ANTONIO
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Hello, I also lost my son, just last month. I live in San Antonio and would love to chat with you. I really need to talk to someone , I am in so much pain. Can you email me, as I am a mother in pain also ?
Hope
knoenhim@yahoo.com

I am so sorry
by: Carol, Seans Mom

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I lost my son on November 15,2011. He also went in his sleep. It was November 13,2011 when Sean went to sleep early afternoon because he was working the overnight shift. When he didnt get up for work his dad went to get him and could not wake him. It is such a shock. The holidays are tough and we all need to stay in touch to get each other threw it. I go one day at a time and I truly believe there is part of me that hasnt accepted it yet. I look at his beautiful pictures and cant imagine he is gone for good. My thoughts and prayers are with you .

I know your pain.
by: Karen (Australia)

I to know your pain,i lost my 14year old son on the 17/08/2011.He to died suddnley i his mum found him in the bottom of the shower bay.I am so lost with him and only just get by.I am so sad and cry all the time.And it doesn,t get any better.Love to u allxx

Mary E and Vale
by: Familyof5forever

I am so sorry to hear about your son - I lost my son the day before Nov18,2011 a drunk driver hit the car he was a passenger in -my mom could not handle losing him she passed away the next day Nov 19, 2011. I can not handle this pain I need them back. I need answers. I pray to God to let me know why this happened. Please know I will and am praying for you your son and all the families in this world that are going through pain.

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