I lost my lovable brother

by Jyoti diwan
(Auckland , Newzealand)


I Lost my older brother . He was just 27 years old. His name was love diwan. He dies due to Chorodoma( cancer) . I lost him just 5months ago. He was like a soul of our family . He was only 2 years older than me. I am his younger sister and we have one younger brother too. 5 years ago he came in newzealand for the study, he finished his study successfully and he got the job over there. After few months ago after his peramanent residency he got the cancer in his back.Doctor says it is rare a type of cancer and it appars the age between 40-50 years ....but here is our bad luck that my brother got that type of cancer....and the more thing there is no particular treatment in the whole world for this kind of cancer. My brother have a full faith in a god . We are indians and we believes in fasting and my brother did fasting and worship in his worst worst to condition . But god did not do any miracle ....and i lost him..... Now my pain of grief is increasing day by day .....beacuse in my life there is no single moment when i does not miss him ...... I believe that he is always with me and he is watching what we are doing ......but i want to see him ..,,please come back ...please god give back to him to us love u so much and its very hard to live without you ....

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Mar 01, 2013
I lost my lovable brother
by: Doreen U.K

Jyoti I am so sorry for your loss of your brother to this rare cancer. What a young age to die. None of us can understand why one so young has to die and why cancer is devastating families more and more these days.
My husband in his 20's worked with Asbestos. It was not known that this was a deadly substance. My husband developed lung cancer called MESOTHELIOMA. This is a rare, inoperable, incurable, aggressive cancer. I was devastated on the day of diagnosis. All I thought of was "My husband is going to die." "What will I do without him." For the first time in my life I had to think of ME and how I would cope. I nursed my husband for 3yrs.39days and he died 10 months ago. We were married 44yrs. and he was due to retire. I am now living without him in LONLINESS. I emailed every God channel for HEALING for my husband. I had the belief that my husband would be healed of his cancer. BUT HE WASN'T. He died. I felt very ANGRY for a long time with God. But because I know God and His ways my Anger was natural and I knew God would help me to get over it. I will be sad forever. Missing Him. You are not alone in what you are going through. But you still have to deal with the loss of a brother you loved so much and hoped you would have in your life for a long time. None of us knows what life will give us. We must treasure those we have left whilst we can.

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