I miss you daddy

by Chelsea
(New Hampshire )

My dad passed away from brain cancer a year ago i was only 19. I still remeber the doctor pulling my family and I aside after his surgery to try to remove the tumor and just telling us "it's bad really bad" those words forever haunt me. After numouers surgerys there was nothing else they could do he fought this tough battle for alittle over a year but the cancer was to strong. My mom sister and I spent his last night with him he was not awake but I held his hand and told him its ok to let go and that ill always love him he passed away after that. I just feel so empty I'm in college and hear all of my friends talking about their dads and all of the things they do together and it hurts cause I can't do them. I know that even though I may not have a dad on earth I have an angel in heaven but sometimes its just not enough. I wish the pain would be easier to deal with in time but its harder.

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Nov 26, 2012
Stay Strong
by: Debra

That's the worst when you always hear about people's dad's and fathers day, the holiday's etc. What is also really difficult is when people find out you lost your dad they always ask you how you dealt with that? and how can you be so strong and keep going on? etc. and I never know what to say to them, I don't have an answer...and I don't think anyone does. The holiday's/ Christmas are always really hard as well, I lost my dad a few years ago from Cancer and every Christmas it just breaks my heart not having him here. I definitely think it's okay to be sad that he's not here anymore, but you (and I and everyone else) also have to remember the good times and the memories and he's always in your heart. I think all our dad's would want to see us happy and know were doing well. We need to look at the holiday's as a celebration of the life we had with our dad's rather than lost memories.
Stay strong <3

Nov 22, 2012
BROKEN
by: Anonymous

I AM SRY FOR YOUR LOSS AS I WRITE THIS , THIS THANKSGIVING MY CHILDREN ARE ALSO GOIN THROUGH THE SAME THING THERE FATHER HAS BRAIN CANCER AND HURRICAN SANDY HAS TRASHED THERE HOUSE THERE FATHER LIES IN THE HOSPTIAL BED AND THEY LIE WITH HIM ASKING HIM TO SPEAK TO THEM ASKING HIM IF HE IS IN PAIN , I HOPE MY GIRLS COULD ONE DAY MOVE ON WITH THERE LIFE AND KNOW THEY HAVE A ANGEL IN HEAVEN , RIGHT NOW THERE BROKEN HEARTED IN SO MANY WAYS BE STRONG MY FRIEND EVEN THO THEY GONE TO HEAVE THERE ENERGY IS ALL AROUND YOU SINCERELY VIVIAN FROM STATEN ISLAND

Nov 21, 2012
Miss my mom
by: Roops

I feel the same as u do. When I look around at other girls my age with their moms, I do feel v bad. They go shopping, share their secrets,etc , with their mothers and here I am..I lost her 1 1/2 yrs back and I was closest to her. I used to call her up so many times a day.and wen v wr together v wr like two beat friends. Giggling, joking, etc. Then suddenly she's gone. M sorry for about ur loss. My mom also had cancer but it was diagnosed just 3 weeks before she left. We never told her. I refused to believe she's going. The pain never goes away. Maybe one day we might learn to live with the pain.

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