I Miss You, Kyle and Caty!

by Debbie
(Carolina Shores)

Tomorrow marks the 5th anniversary of your death, Kyle. You were only 21! Far too young to die! You never got to marry, have kids, finish college, start down your career path, etc. You never got to pursue your dream of becoming a rock star…You would have been a great one, too! So much talent; so much potential to do good with it! People tried to tell me that as hard as it was to lose you, dying so young may have saved you from the dark side of fame and fortune – the drugs, alcohol, and selfish, self-centered way of life. Maybe so, but you should have had the opportunity! The world lost a great musician and an all-around wonderful person when you died!

I miss you so much! Your loss sort of got buried under the fresher grief from the loss of your sister last year, but not an hour goes by that I don’t miss you!

I miss you too, Caty! You were my baby, and always will be! At 23, you were barely an adult anyway. You never got to finish that nursing degree, or find a decent guy who would be a good step-dad to your boys! You never even got to see your baby take his first steps, or hear him call you “Mama.” You were a terrific mother, and an awesome person!

As for me, it seems like I’ve hardly had the chance to grieve for you or Kyle these past 14 months since I lost you. What with struggling to take care of your baby, and get custody of your preschooler - as you asked me to do should anything ever happen to you – I haven’t had much time to sit down and think! I hope you and Kyle are enjoying heaven with your daddy. Even though it’s been 18 years now, I still miss him too! Love you guys!

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Jun 26, 2013
very sorry
by: AnonymousMomma

I feel really bad for you. That is too much, and I thought I had been through some bad times. When one goes through difficult times he/she is promised a blessing on this side or the other. Yours should be monumental.

Jun 16, 2013
I feel your pain!
by: Debbie- Birmingham

I am so sorry you lost your children! I know thats the worse pain you can feel! I lost my son June 27, all most three years ago. No one but us here knows the true pain of losing a child or children! I know my words to you will not bring your children back,but I hurt for you!! I try to make sense of the death of my son,but I cannot!! Why is it that most people in life have all their children,but we do not? Its not fair!! Please know if you need someone to talk to I am here! My email is blondincp@aol.com.You are not alone! Take care of yourself,I know its hard raising your grand children.I too have my grand children living with me.

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