i miss your face.....i need help!

by mouseygirl123

My Grandmother passed away three weeks ago and it has been hard on all of us. my sister is young so she doesn't really get it and my dad, well it wasn't his mother. i am only thirteen and in need of help but cant find it in in who i need......my mom. every time she is mentioned, she gets emotional. this is the sort of thing i would have talked to my grandma about which makes it even harder. i am desperate for help. anything is appreciated! thanks and god bless

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Sep 23, 2012
i miss your face...... i need help!
by: Doreen U.K.

mouseygirl123 I am sorry for your loss of your grandmother. You are so young and also very mature in your response. Good you are reaching out for help. Sweetie it is so sad when we lose people from our lives. People who have supported us and loved us and a very important part in our life. Your mom is emotional because she has lost her mom. It hurts her deeply. She doesn't know how to cope with her loss. Everyone else gets lost in the Grief and perhaps feeling neglected. If you have a counsellor in school, this may be a good time to speak to them and get some support, so your studies don't suffer as this will only add to your problems. We will go on to lose people from our lives and this is the sad reality of life. but Grief when it comes is so very hard and painfull to deal with. You sound as if you are distant from your parents and perhaps looked more to your grandmother for understanding. Families start to fracture more after a death. they become silent, subdued. Changes take place in the family and it can often be hard to find our way back. It does last for some time, but it doesn't last forever. You still need to talk out your feelings to someone. If you bottle up your grief it will only make you ill. Some families just find it hard to talk to each other. But you can try. Don't give up. Don't take on your mom's emotion. Try and understand this. Don't avoid your family. Just being present helps. Don't isolate yourself it will only make your lonliness worse. You can keep a journal and write in this all your thoughts and feelings about your grandmother, your feelings, your hurts, your pain. Anything you want to. It will help get your feelings out into the open. They won't seem so scary. You will have this book as long as you need it and when you look at it in time you will be able to see if you have moved forward. I wish you God's comfort and Peace in your life. I hope you get back on track again with your mom and dad and your sister.

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