I wasn't ready to lose you daddy.

by Brenda Sim
(London, England)

My dad was a wonderful and rather popular man. I lost him 3 weeks ago suddenly. He was 69 years old and died of kidney failure. He was not really sickly. He was a hard working man who enjoyed keeping busy. when he wasn't at work, he enjoyed playing golf or socialising. Both my sister and I live in different countries to that of my parents. We were shocked to hear of his sudden death, having been ill for just 2 days. I am lost without my dad, he was my mentor, my rock, my world. Each day is painful without him and I hope that we will meet again one day soon. I love you daddy now and forever and I am so proud of you. You loved us unconditionally and worked so hard for us. You brought me up to be this decent, level headed, brave & strong human being. You are amazing and I miss you so much. Rest in peace dear daddy. xxx

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Aug 22, 2012
My dads loss created a great gap in our lives
by: Anonymous

My dad died after 3 weeks of illness. We still cannot beleive how he left. He had a massive heart attack on 11th of July 2012 and 11 cardiac arrest on the next day. He was in the peripheral hospital feeling fine on that day talking and laughing as always and then the tragedy began. The hospital was out of anti-thrombic drug and we were assured that it was ok then suddenly the clock was ticking backwards. He was rushed into cathederization and 2 stents were implanted and was taken to the intensive care.As a result of his weak heart he went into lung, kidney and heart failure and was on the ventilator for 20 days. He passed away on August 2nd and left a great gap in our hearts and lives. He was a real fighter. Everyone was suprised how he surived for so many days. Such an intense figure active, kind hearted, helping anyone in need. Life is difficult without him. He will always be in my heart and never be forgotten.

Aug 21, 2012
Not ready to MY Daddy either.
by: Anonymous

I am devastated. I lost my Daddy 3 weeks ago on Aug 1, 2012. It was so hard as it was from an accidental fall and because he was on blood thinners, that little bump caused a massive clot in his brain. There were NO symptoms for 2 days and then it everything started to happen. By Tuesday we had to enforce his Living Will and then we sat with him until it was over. I feel so deminished now. I just can't seem to get going again.

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