It gets Easier

by Febe
(Swakopmund, Namibia)

Its been just over four months since my love died on me, everyday is still a struggle and sometimes it seems like i cannot go on but I would like to share with you the lyrics of a song that I have been listening to for a couple of weeks now, somehow it brings a little comfort to me and hopefully you will feel it too.

you can also try singing along, it helps especially those days when you are super low.

Easier by Kandi

This song is dedicated to my brother
Patrick O'Dell Reilly

I was in misery without you
I could not imagine life without you
It was such a painful thing to go through
Have you bein' taken away
But I, I dried my tears
Even though it took a couple of years
I guess I had to just get over my fears
Of bein' alone
But it gets... it gets easier
Without you
I won't feel right
I can't feel right
Without you
But it gets, it gets easier

I thought my life was over without you
Thought I would be oh so sad darlin'
Cuz you left me here to face all my fears
All by myself, with nobody else
Now that you're gone, I just gotta move on
But my love'll never change
It'll always stay the same
I felt you were gone, the lonely nights alone
I get weak, then I'm strong
It gets easier

Sometimes it's really hard to just let go

Don't feel like movin' on, oh, yet I know

Just breathin' air is hard to bare
When the one that you love is not there

Thoughts of you sit heavy on my mind

I always reminisce on our good times
I just take it day by day
I know that it'll never be easy
But I can say, it gets easier

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Dec 16, 2010
It gets easier
by: Donna

Thank you for posting this song. I printed it and will read it every day to remind me like the song says it does get easier (sometimes). I'm so thankful for those times. Thanks for reminding us.

Dec 16, 2010
getting stronger (trying)

Oh that is absolutely beautiful and soooo very true. Thank you so much for giving us a little piece of strength for the day. I hope that your days get better and stronger. It is together that we ride this boat of grief. Thank You...

Dec 15, 2010
it gets easier
by: jules

Febe, they are beautiful words, words to live by.
Remember - one step, one breath
take care

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