its been 2 months

by teresa

its been 2 months now since my fiance died it seems like yesterday even when the sun is out my days are dark. i feel so lost and alone i pray everyday for strength to get through the day i am at the point of not wanting to even leave the house .life will never be the same for me i know that. i have hope it will get better with time better than what it is now.

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Oct 18, 2014
I understand
by: Anonymous

I lost my brother about 4 months ago, the pain never goes away and I don't think a day goes by that I don't think about him or the fact I'm never going to see him again. People constantly tell you that ''it will get easier'' it doesn't. The grief is always there, it doesn't just go away. But what gets me through life is knowing if I gave up it would tear him apart, our loved ones don't deserve the guilt of the pain they've left behind do they? We have to paint a smile on our faces for them, but just remember that your feelings, thoughts and emotions are yours, you have control over them.

Apr 24, 2011
it's been 2 months
by: Mari

My heart goes out to all of you who have suffered recent losses.You need time to adjust to the loss. Please know that God is with you at this difficult time. Healing is in his wings.
The grieving process takes time to get through. It varies with each person. There are so many memories to deal with.
There are a lot of wonderful people on this board who care for you you and are ready to listen.
These kinds of losses take time to deal with. Please be assured that you are never alone.Take things a little at a time. Try to surround yourself with loving kind people.
My husband passed a way 15 months ago. I am still grieving but ma doing better. The worst part is the loneliness. I am finding though I am adjusting somewhat although I miss him very much.God bless all of you. Keep posting.

Apr 23, 2011
It will take some time
by: Terri

I understand how you feel, it has just been 3 short months since my husband died. I do not have the will to be productive or continue day to day but somehow I get through. But as you said I know it will get better over time. I pray that those days come soon. No one can understand the pain you feel unless you have lived it. I don't visit this sight every day but when I am at my worst I come here and for some reason I receive comfort. I hope it will provide you with the same comfort.

Apr 23, 2011
2 months

Please continue to read blogs especially on early grief. It is not unusual to want to stay in the house and do the bare minimum. It is also not unusual to go crazy trying to keep busy thinking that you have to. That does not keep grief at bay either. We are all going or have gone through much of the emotions that you speak of.
2 months is very early in grief the numbness is starting to wear off and reality is kicking in.

Please come back and vent as often as you need to.
It does help to get feedback knowing that your not going nuts just crazy with grief. It also helps to reply to other grievers going through what you are. Helping others helps yourself too.

It is a long hard road surviving grief. I am glad that you found this site. The people are wonderful and they really do understand...

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