Joseph Jan 9. 2012

I lost my son Joseph Jan 9th. 2012. The pain is unbearable at times. I have so much hurt and anger and guilt for not being able to do something. We do not have the results of the autopsy yet, but he did have some health problems.I miss him so much. I just want and need to know that he is ok. I hope he knows how much I love him, He was only 26.

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Apr 22, 2012
Joseph Jan 9. 2012
by: Anonymous

Just got Josephs autopsy results Cardiomalagy (enlarged Heart) never knew he had this although we did go to the hospital 3 times due to swelling in his legs and feet which are a symptom . I am beside myself thinking with the proper medical treatment my baby could still be here.

Mar 16, 2012
email address
by: leon and dorothy tutthill

i WOULD LIKE TO TALK TO YOU MY EMAILL ADDRESS IS CWUNSCH444@HOTMAIL.COM please contact me so we may speakin private

Mar 15, 2012
Lost of the child the worst pain in the world!
by: Anonymous

I lost eight months and half ago my son to suicide. His wife gave him depression and finally he killed himself. Since then I am really sick and I go to psychiatrist and therapist weekly and stop working and take some medication. The only thing helps me a lot is to know that my son is alive and I will see him when is my time to go to other realm. I am listening to seance of the Leslie Finli recording. He is one of the famous medium who died 16 years ago and all the recording from spirits are in internet. It helps me a lot. It proves that there is life after death and we all join our love ones. May be this way you feel a little bit better. I really feel your pain.

Your friend

Mar 14, 2012
We just lost our 27 Yr. Old Son on Dec.23,2011
by: Leon and Dorothy Tuthill

Our son died of a condition called "Dilated Cardiomyopathy"-a condition that neither he/us did not even knew he had. I noticed you were waiting for the "Autopsy" results. I would curious to know if he died "of the same thing my son died of"? Yes, the pain is SO,SO UNBEARABLE! We can hardly function from day to day. If you want to answer my e-mail-fine. If not, I understand.

Mar 11, 2012
Joseph's mom
by: Cathy

I want to Thank everyone who has taken time out of their grief to try and make me feel better.It is hard to fathom how many of us that have lost a child way before their time. I am grateful for all of your kind words, knowing first hand what you are feeling. I will keep all of you in my thoughts and prayer's, I believe we will be reunited with our children in Heaven. That is the one comfort I hold on to.

Mar 11, 2012
Im also so sorry..Jesse's mom

I also lost my 21yr old son Jesse on February 6th, we are waiting autopsy and toxicology reports but were expecting to hear an accidental overdose of a very strrong and dangerous pain medication he was given. Jesse was the oldest of three children, he had a younger brother and sister.. he passed away in his sleep after being taken to the ER, we were told hedd be ok and he just needed to "sleep it off" His younger brother found him the next morning, he then came and got me, finding your baby, your wonderful son deceased in his own bed, a place where he should be safe is so hard to accept, its an unbearbale pain I wont ever be able to get over. Life without Jesse wont ever be the same, and every day since hes died has been days spent crying and crying and more crying, I just cant believe hes gone......Thoughts and prayers are with you..

Jesse's mom Krissy

Mar 11, 2012
My heart goes out to you
by: Cathy

It breaks my heart to hear about the death of your son Joseph. I understand the depths of your pain as I lost my only son Joshua on January 4, 2012. Like you, we await an autopsy, which will probably prove what we already know. My son had heart problems and had not been taking his medication. The heart attack was swift and final. The only comfort I can offer you is knowing there are so many of us out here who understand what you are feeling and together we can pray and support each other. I believe, and hold close to me heart, that my son is in Heaven. With this belief I am guaranteed to see my son again some day. I find tremendous comfort in knowing that. Our children are a beautiful gift to us from God. He loans them to us for a period of time that only He determines. Joseph gave you wonderful memories. That is how our children live on in our hearts until that day comes when you can see them again. Blessings to you and your family.

Mar 11, 2012
Joseph Jan 9. 2012
by: Anonymous

I am so sorry for your loss. I understand all that you are going through. The not seeing them is the hardest part.

Mar 11, 2012
I am so Sorry
by: carol,seans mom

I lost my 24 year old son Sean on November 15,2011. We are still waiting for autopsy results. It is so sad for all of us. The hardest part is we never get to talk to or see them again. Four months later my body is still filled with pain. Sean was the oldest of three children and my only son. He had so many unfullfilled dreams. I am sick everyday. Life is so different now. I try to be strong for his sisters. Your other children will become your life line.

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