Just Me

by Nadene

It first started with the loss of my Dad. Two years latter my sister - in -law passed on the same day, October 22nd . We buried her on the same day as dad two yrs. apart. Then I was called to go to my brothers house Oct. 10th 2008. He had remarried and they were having problems. After seeing my sister-in-law out I went inside to try to talk to my brother. We were always close, Our birthdays may have alot to do with that. He was born June 4th. A year after on June 5th I came along. We had the same friends and did alot together as we grew up. October 10th I went back inside and I heard two shots. He had locked himself in the bedroom so I broke through the door. He had shot himself twice in the head. He was still alive and although I tried to keep him here he died in my arms. September of 2010 my mom became ill. She didn't want treatment even though she could have lived. She told me she had more people over there than here after the loss of her only son. We lost mom March 3rd. At least it wasn't October.

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Jul 06, 2011
i am so sorry
by: Anonymous

i am so sorry for all of your losses... and so close together too... i can't even begin to imagine what you are going through. do you have other family? friends you can talk to? a support group for grief maybe? that is something you really shouldn't be going through alone. it is so unfair you had to lose everyone you loved in the same time period. i don't even know you and that just makes you so sad. i am sure there are people who love you, including me. please email me any time to let off whatever you need to... wasntallbrad@yahoo.com

Jun 20, 2011
by: Anonymous

God bless you Nadene and may He wrap His comfort
and blessing around you and stay with you as long as that may be. You have to be a strong person, even if you don't think you are, to go through all that you have. When I read the posts left here, I imagine thousands of hurting souls all
walking together, giving strength to each other and all here because of a loss and needing
relief. So we'll all keep walking until we get where we are going, a happy, peaceful place.
My parents and my only 2 brothers are gone. I
grieve all day, every day. I'll never forget them. So I keep walking. And I'll make it.
You are in my prayers.

Jun 15, 2011
It Hurts So Bad
by: TrishJ

God bless you Nadene for all of your loss. I have another person in my life named Nadene. She was my daughter's dance teacher for many years. She lost her mother, father and only sibling all within 5 years of each other. I don't see her often but when I ask about her everyone tells me she is doing well. I don't know how she could be doing well. That's a lot of loss for one person to take. It isn't easy. You probably can't help but ask WHY? I'm having trouble dealing with the death of my husband 6 months ago. I really feel for your losses.
I almost don't know what to say. Just...please know that everyone on this site is suffering. We have all lost loved ones. When things happen that we don't understand we have to put our faith and trust in God. Please try to find some good in each day. Some days it's hard to find. You certainly deserve to have some happiness. I wish that for you. Hang in there.
Peace and hugs.

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