last hope

by cleo
(new zealand)

On June 16th 2013, my grandfather passed away. Im only 14 and I loved him very much. The worst thing about it was He was thousands of miles away in south africa and Im in New zealand.Im in a terrible mourning and cannot do anything, im not going to school for a while because I cant go even 1 hour without breaking down into tears. Im having a hard time believing hes really gone and my mother has gone to south africa with her mother.i feel like nothing will ever be the same again... if i could do anything right now it would be to bring him back and hold him one more time and tell him how much I love him.

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Jun 18, 2013
last hope
by: Mari

I am very sorry to hear of the loss of your grandpa. It sounds as if you were very close to him.
It takes time to get through the grieving process, a day at a time. Think of the happy times you had with him. And thank God you had such a wonderful grandpa in your life.He would not want you to feel so sad all the time.Please realize that it takes time to get through the grief but you will find that in time you will accept it.
I remember when I lost my grandparents and I was sad too. But I remember the kindness they showed me. I remember thinking I had the prettiest grandma in the world.I remember drawing pictures as a little girl and my grandma and grandpa would admire them. Grandparents come from the Lord and someday you will see your grandpa again in heaven.
Try to think of the happy times. Your grandpa must have been a wonderful person.Try to just do your usual studies and school and remember that he loved you too. You sure sound like a caring person. Give yourself time to recover. Mari

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